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I m an 18 year old male that leaves in sweden. My love life has been quite dry for many years now. All you need to know is that i went on a dinner date with a girl (first date) which ended up with a passionate kiss. The thing is i feel like that i was to easy, what i mean by that is that she got me to easy because i m quite straightforward when it comes to dating. So i wonder if i should ignore her texts for a week so she can chase me. Is it a good plan or am i just shooting myself in the leg?

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Not a good plan - or a kind one. Text her first and tell her how much you enjoyed it and hope that one day you will repeat the event. You can keep her guessing a bit by not actually making a date for a few days - and certainly not telling her that you love her at this stage.

Make sure the next date is fun and that she can associate you with enjoyment and laughter and good feelings. Do something physical sch as skating or bowling, to bring out the feel-good endorphins. Don't get heavy or too serious by, for example, talking about past failed relationships.

SuperSaraSweetheart · Answer

yeah, playing games is always the mature thing to do, it always leads to success!
Looky here, ur too old to play the lil "im gonna ignore u'...talk to her or not.

? · Answer

You are an adult now, so don't play games with people.  If you like a woman and want to see her again, let her know it.  You're not committing to marriage here.  She's a person with feelings. If you go on a date and then play around waiting to contact her again, then, she may just end up dating someone else.  Women are not mind readers.

President Michael Vicks Dog · Answer

Playing games is lame. No need if she's into you. If she's not, forget her.

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