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How do I help my boyfriend forget/deal with my past?
Okay. Well. I have a very difficult past. So I come w baggage. I have done sexual stuff. And I mean a lot, but I'm 16, and I fell in love w my boyfriend last year (we were best friends for about 2 year now, and hes been my boyfriend on and off) and so he had a very hsrd time dealing with my sexual past experiences and etc, and it causes him a lot of stress, to where he is super sad and we almost broke up because of it. It usually just happens whenever i bring up an ex, but im worried. I told him we have to fight for our love, and that he needs to learn how to deal with my past cause it's my past, and that he important and special now. But yea, how can I help? I don't want to break up because of my past, but it's very hard on him. Advice please? We are 16. Serious answers only, I really need help on how to save and help my relationship w the love of my life. Thanks :).
2 Antworten
- VA 25Lv 4vor 5 Jahren
Okay.... first, darlin', just having sex with an ex is not "having a past".... God. If just "having sex with ex boyfriend" is your entire sex-history...then WHAT is the big deal? Like, that is *everyone's* past story.
Second, Your new guy needs to grow up. Does he ACTUALLY think that all of his girlfriends are going to be virgins? hilarious.
Third, NEVER "bring up" an ex boyfriend. That is a total buzz kill. WHY would you ever talk about an ex? Of your entire question, THAT is the only thing that he has the right to be sad and stressed about. And, yes, he will break up with you if you keep doing this. Because it is SO disrespectful to him.
Fourth, you should never EVER have to "fight for your love". That is an idea conjured up in movies. Love is beautiful and hot and happy and should LIFT your heart. It should never be something you should have to fight for. Especially at 16. At that age, love should come so so easy !!
- vor 5 Jahren
Oops. I forgot to include that he was the first one that took my virginity, so that was saved and I wanred to save it for marriage, but since I love him, I let him take it. So I really need help. This is supposed to be in the detail box of the question.