When you're dating and he gives you his class ring, that he already gave another girl.?

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My boyfriend gave me his class ring. He made it such a big deal like it was the first time he had given it to someone, asking me to keep it and wear it. I even said to him that I'm surprised that he still had it and didn't give it to one of his other girlfriends. It wasn't until later when I found out that he did indeed give to one of his other girlfriends and she gave it back when they broke up for the third time.

Is it ok that I'm upset about this, or am I being illogical. Should I tell him to take it back. He would also say that "I got the boy" song was my song because I got the class ring. It seems a big lie to me. Is it right for me to be this way, or no?

DN · Answer

That whole "class ring thing" is all bs anyways.  It's not an engagement ring and you already know he'll just give it to his next gf if you guys break up.  So it's pretty much meaningless now.  You are allowed to be mad, but it's good you found out the type of guy he is.

Anonym · Answer

Yeah I would be upset and disappointed too. I'd suggest a class bracelet you both can wear.  Bot get one together. Symbolize those items between you two. Doesnt have to be expensive, its the meaning behind it.

Ziff Spiffington · Answer

it's NOT an engagement ring - get over it and when you break up, he'll be asking for it back again

When you're dating and he gives you his class ring, that he already gave another girl.?

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