Should I feel obligated to attend sister's college graduation?

Question

I live 2000 miles away and really don't care about it so I said no. Sister is raising a stink. Should I feel obligated to inconvenience myself to this extent?

I ask because this kind of thing makes very little sense to me. I didn't walk at my own graduation, didn't ask anyone else to show up, and don't request anything like this from other people in general.

Fireplace · Answer

You already hurt her feelings, why ask this now? What difference does it make what you "should" feel? You don't feel like you have to go so you're not going. What difference would it make if anyone said yes you should feel obligated? You still won't feel that way.

Pearl L · Answer

thats up to you but you might have an angry sister if you dont

Should I feel obligated to attend sister's college graduation?

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