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how to show I dont care for my little sister...?
I notice in my little sister that she don't care about me in anyway and thinks she's popular and things like that. When I try to care for her and ask her about her day and all she barely talks to me. She gives me dead end conversations and everything I bought her a lot of things for Christmas and a week after she went back to her old self which is be rude to me and all that like she don't appreciate anything. So what are some ways to show I don't care for her and to make her feel she's losing me as a brother. What should I do?
8 Antworten
- Christine PLv 5vor 6 Jahren
Well, I don't agree entirely with the others who tell you she is your sister and you just have to over look it, but I wouldn't give up just yet. This may be a "phase" as they say. Some young kids are pretty selfish, immature, cliquish etc. Girls esp. can be moody. All in all between 13 and 17 they can be miserable to be around in my opinion. For now, I guess I would suggest you just tell her how you feel. That you are her brother, that you want to be friends or whatever, and that you model this by being a caring big brother. However, if things don't change over a few months, I would just back off. Focus on other things and be less available, initiate less etc. This would be a normal reaction with anyone. You shouldn't have to be a doormat even for a family member. Eventually, she will come around OR she won't. As they say, you can chose your friends, but you can't choose your family. Occasionally, we have family members that we are better off being distant from...hopefully that won't be your case with your sister, but it's possible if she doesn't mature.
- vor 6 Jahren
Alright,, I'm not even going to read the rest of this conversation. She's your little sister, and so... 9/10 she's younger, why would you just do that, whether they talk to you or not family is forever....
- CLv 4vor 6 Jahren
Its alright man.
If you are hurt don't make it worse by saying anything.
Girls usually notice when something is off.
She may or may not respond. But in the long run she will get it and appreciate you.
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- vor 6 Jahren
I understand completely.
-Deny her ANY FAVOR she asks you, no matter how big or how small, just say no
-If she comes into your room, COMMAND her to leave.
-Whenever she insults you, insult her back. Call her evil. Tell her you hate her. Tell her you wish she was never born. Tell her she has a black heart. She soundsa as though she does...
