Should i have sex with multiple people at this senior party?

I can't speak for what's going through your head right now, and you obviously want ideas without being judged, so here's what I know.

You're probably a little confused, you're probably not sure yet exactly what you want, but you know you want something and you want it now. You think you know how to get it, and you think that sex gives you some sort of control over your feelings and you wants and your needs.

Maybe I'm wrong, but that's how I would understand someone in your situation. Now what I DO know is that I know girls that were in your position when they were younger. Some of them are doing alright now, some of them aren't. The ones that are have learned to love themselves, have learned to develop respect in their relationships and no longer use sex to get what they want (because their sex lives were so damaging to them when they were younger). That being said, the sex lives they have now are great, because they're with someone they love and they have fun.

It rather depends on the sort of reputation you want, your loyalty to your boyfriend and how much of your own self respect you would like to retain.

Sex might be fun (obviously!), and so may drink and drugs be, but the consequences can be disastrous outside of a serious, mature, well established and loving relationship - involving a strong friendship - let alone safety. Read the questions here; so very many are about deeply unhappy people who had sex - and quite often children - when in their teens, and are completely miserable as a result. The same applies to people who go on t.v. shows such as Maury, Jeremy Kyle, etc. The main reason is that sex is very intimate and emotionally bonding (especially when frequent or regular), and when the friendship, mutual values and ambitions, etc. are not in place, requiring a degree of maturity and adult type understanding of self and others, emotional confusion and misery ensue. In addition, there is the very important element of respect. Easy sex costs a girl the respect of other people as well as her own self respect.

You're disgusting.

You're 15, you're still considered a child. You shouldn't be having sex, period. You say that you're mature for your age, anyone who's mature won't even consider having sex with multiple guys. And what the hell is up with your boyfriend? he's clearly treating you like a sex object since he doesn't care about you sleeping with other guys.

I'm 16. I've been dating an incredible guy for 2 years now, and I'm still a virgin. I love him, and he loves me. I can tell by the way he holds me, and the way he looks at me. I can clean and cook, I have never drank alcohol and my school average is 98.29%. THATS being mature. Not going around barely wearing any clothes, drinking and having unprotected sex.

don't do that....

people'll call you a whore and it'll turn into a big deal youll lose respect giving it up easy

other than that worse **** could probably happen you could get pregnant

God. You serious? Can't wait till you have a daughter.

Idk if this is a troll or not.

You're 15.

Do you seriously want to do this?

I feel like people are having sex way way way too early these days.

Someone may record you and screw you over in the web, don't .

It is one way of filling the earth with humans.

YES ALYSSA.you can make love with anyone you like.

youre a good little slut i like you