hook up.. hooked up with with guy but he said he doesn't know if he wants a relationship?

Let me decode this for you:

When a guy says this he means - I don't want you to sleep with any other guys but I get to bang all the chicks I want.

It makes NO sense to tell a girl you don't want a relationship but to exclusively only F each other. He is trying to pull a fast one on you, don't fall for it!

Yeah, this dude is trying to pass off a "double standard" on you.... DONT be dumb about this and fall for it.

This means he wants YOU to be faithful to HIM, but he wants to be free to go out and BOINK lots of girls. That's what a guy means when he says "I don't want / am not ready for a relationship".

Yes, of COURSE he wants to do it again.... guys live for getting NOOKIE, esp FREE NOOKIE that a girl gives up when she thinks a guy "likes" her.... Don't fall for this.

What I suggest is to DROP this dude altogether. Do you know why???

REMEMBER: There are Billions of guys on this planet waiting to meet you. Yep, billions with a B. Don't ever get hung up on ONE guy, and the ONE guy who wants it HIS way, and not yours.... Let some great guys meet you, instead of being this dudes "lay" option... DROP contact with him and meet great guys in this world! Good luck.

P.s. what he said was Bull sheite; don't buy it. Billions.....just saying...........

He can't tell you what to do. You can hookup with whomever. Tell him "Uhh excuse me, but if I want to hook up with someone else you can't tell me not to because I wouldn't be cheating"