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Divorced my wife because of her crazed reations (long story)?
A bit long but I would appreciate your patience in reading this.
After several attempts to get approved for weight loss surgery she finally got approved by government sponsored program but had a waiting period of 14 months.
At the time her brother's wife was approved for another government sponsored surgery due in 3 months but she backed up at the last minute, so her brother approached and told her she can get into the surgery pretending to be his wife since their ID checks are quite poor she would be able to fool them. I firmly objected for 2 main reasons,
First because she is impersonating someone else which when caught she will get into trouble with the law.
Secondly because her sister in law already made all physical tests including blood tests and we all know that her sister in law have a different blood type and have some sort of blood disease. So she will be exposing her body to another blood type which can cause serious rejection, and she will get medication for a blood disease she wouldn't need all under full anestesia, very dangerous in all counts.
She stubbornly refused to listen, saying that she will do it no matter what, I kept on gently reminding her of the dangers of her approach over a course of 3 months, but she remained very stubborn, I presented her with medical facts about the danger of this approach but she remained stubborn. I told her brother who is also ignorant about the dangers but he is also saying that his sister wants it so he will go ahead a
So when there were a few days before I called her brother and was finally able to convince him to cancel the whole thing. I then talked to her and she remained stubborn and shouting and threatening to leave me if I object it. She talked to her brother and he told her that he won't go with it as long as I am so worried about it. She then relented.
Then she insisted on going to a private hospital, I said fine but we have to wait a few months so I can afford it because I just bought and furnished
the new house, she says she had the money, I asked here where did she get the money from, she doesn't work and as an accountant and I see how she spends the money I give her she couldn't have saved enough money for the surgery. She refused to let me know where she got the money, I told her let me know where you got it from, if it is a debt I need to know so I can plan to repay it,
She refused, and I refused to drive her to the hospital until I know the source of it. She then started shouting and
threatening to commit suicide, and started banging on the doors calling for the neighbors, I saw no other way to quiet her but to slap her. Then I told her I will take her to the hospital, I took a different road than I usually take and she started screaming that she will jump off the car, I told her to calm down but she opened the door and was about to throw herself out of the car, I grabbed her, slapped her again. took her to the hospital, called her brother while she was inside, told him to
come home after an hour, when we went back I told him the whole thing, and I went to her upstairs and told her that I want to divorce, since this was the third time she acts like this. Although I didn't say no to the surgery, and all I wanted is for her to do it legally and without huge health risk of impersonating somone with different health condition.
So I told her its over.
Its been a week now. I feel angry, lonely, terrible, she needs help but she won't take any help from me,
12 Antworten
- Anonymvor 7 JahrenBeste Antwort
Wow. This is wrong on so many levels, I wouldn't even know where to begin. Dysfunctional to say the least. I would be more concerned with getting her into a mental health facility than a fat farm at this point.
- LivinrawguyLv 7vor 7 Jahren
I would imagine that no Dr. would even do the surgery on her until she should she was of sound mind. First of all your being a bit of jerk I would imagine if your brother in-law and his wife went to the Dr's and expressed that they have a family member that is in more need of this surgery and would like to give their position to them in the upcoming government sponsored placement they would consider it. I think you were being a bit irrational and to ask for a divorce when your wife is in a personal crisis that is just cold and selfish. So your wife has a meltdown and you say I want a divorce what you might as well have given her a gun and the bullets your dealing with someone who most likely has depression and possibly suicidal tendencies wake-up mate you expect her to listen to anything you have to say after you throw her emotional roller coaster of life under a bus. I hope for your sake you can afford a good attorney cause if they was to read this they could charge you with assault and mental abuse.
- seedy historyLv 7vor 7 Jahren
Sorry for the levels of complete insanity that all concerned are showing.
My husband has had many surgeries.. many. And every time he is required to show his identification repeatedly. And more tests are done on the day of the surgery. Your wife walking in claiming to be someone else will only work for her in a hospital that is so lousy and haphazard and irresponsible as to be a place she should never have anything done to her at all. Ever.
Anytime someone tells me that the only way they could handle their out of control wife was to slap her around .... what I hear is that they have done this before and it's a thing they do. Deciding to slap your wife around in a car while driving is about who YOU are, not her. Fact.
- vor 5 Jahren
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- WonderwomanLv 7vor 7 Jahren
She's a food addict in a world that only values thin people. She's not in her right mind. She will do anything she can, even risk her life, to be able to have both. You should have reported her. She needs some serious help.
- vor 5 Jahren
Explain to friends, family and work colleagues that you’re dieting. Support from your people around you keeps an individual motivated, stops you from cheating and makes it less likely you will fall off the wagon.
- vor 5 Jahren
Check out menus online before heading out so you have a few healthy options in mind.
- vor 4 Jahren
Always start your meal which has a salad. It'll fill you way up, making you eat less with the actual meal, and it's means fewer calories than typical deep-fried or cheesy apps.
- vor 5 Jahren
Eat in front of a person rather than screen. It cuts down on mindless eating and allows you to more accountable for each chew.
- Anonymvor 4 Jahren
Set up reminders on your laptop or phone every hour to encourage yourself to get up, walk around, and stretch.
