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Paris
Paris fragte in Family & RelationshipsSingles & Dating · vor 7 Jahren

says he loves me, but treats me like a ****in bed?

this guy, his 26 im 21. we met at work, we started talking etc. I have came over 3 times already. he tells me he loves me, wants me forever, im this and that etc...but when I slept with him, he was kinda aggressive, making loud noises, pulled my har, smacked my butt and my face, bites. in bed he wasn't sensual at all. I am so confused, I don't know if I should stop doing this because his either lying or manipulating me with "love" just to do it. but when we do it it isn't sensual, genuine etc. heres the catch though. he pays for taxis there and back, he brought me chocolate to work (before we did it). P.S we did it 1 day ago. tells me im perfect for him and txts me every morning and sends these cute love pictures of like hearts n flower etc. AND his been to Canada for 1 year, his English isn't strong but we do have an understanding. so im just really confused. I googled his zodiac so his a cancer and a dragon (I don't know if u guys believe in astrology). he has shown me what his parents, sisters look like etc. asked me a little about my relatives, I guess its hard for him to communicate thts why I cant really fill you guys in on communication, when we see eachother we talk about random stuff, and I miss u I love u etc.. I kinda want to put a stop to this because I don't want to be played, but at the same time maybe his just rrly aggressively sexual by nature ? men tht genuinely feel for women, they don't get aggressive with them, they usually are sensual? I don't know..:(

4 Antworten

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  • Key
    Lv 4
    vor 7 Jahren

    I understand. Just talk to him about the sex. If you two love one another etc then you should be able to talk about anything. Ask him why is he so rough in bed. Let him know that you don't like it and that you'd rather him be sensual. Some women like aggressive men in bed and others don't. Maybe in the past he was aggressive and maybe the woman liked it and he may think that all women like it. So just be honest with him.

    Since he's a cancer then if you don't want to be in a relationship regardless then just let him know. Don't lead him on etc.

  • LD
    Lv 5
    vor 7 Jahren

    I agree with the other answer, it sounds like this is his style in bed. If you don't like it and it sounds like you don't, tell him that. Tell him that it is too rough for you and you don't feel comfortable. You need to be able to talk to him about what you are both looking for in these relationship.

  • D
    Lv 7
    vor 7 Jahren

    This is his style in bed. He's a dom (dominant man, and you're the sub, submissive girl). You can google it. You should talk to him about it, if you don't like the rough play.

  • Anonym
    vor 7 Jahren

    Smack that ***** I mean ah he sounds dominant so tell him to back the F off

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