how does one "get over" being raped??

I think you have to find your own path. What works for me might not work for you. Do you want justice that you may never get? If yes, then you have to hold on to whatever it is that makes you want justice without becoming jaded.

The world does not care about you. People don't care. People lie to themselves. People rationalize their unethical behavior. If it benefits them they'll think (or not think) whatever they have to.

Karma isn't real. You have to make a difference. If you don't no one will. Practice focusing your mind and work at something productive.

Being raped is not your fault. Contrary to wide-spread belief, not all males care about what their partner looks like. All they want is to **** something, and vaginas feel the same no matter what the girl looks like. If you got a vagina, you're attractive, regardless of your appearance or age.

And besides, most rapists are interested primarily in overpowering someone, or making them feel horrible, even if they aren't sexually attracted to the victim, bc what turns them on are the emotions they're looking for.

And if you got any sort of pleasure from it (alot of rape victims do), that's not your fault or even your choice. Messing with your private parts like that will automatically cause a fealing of arousal, regardless of the situation, bc the chemicals that control that emotion are created down there, rather than in the brain.

None of it was your fault, and more than likely that guy would've attacked you regardless of what you looked like.

Firstly I'd like to say.. I'm so sorry you had to go through that..

Secondly.. I know exactly how you feel because it happened to me 11 months ago..

It will get better in time.. Just keep your chin up and don't let them destroy your life. Xxxxxxxxxx

Need therapy