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? fragte in Family & RelationshipsFamily · vor 8 Jahren

Should I stay home or go to school tomorrow?

So my wonderful mother (feel free to look at my previous questions to get an idea of how amazing she is) wants me to stay home from school tomorrow even though I'm failing and we're about to get report cards so I can watch my little brother because he's sick and can't go to daycare. She says she doesn't have anyone else to watch him even though she refuses to call my grandparents because they're not always reliable. I told her I'm going to school because I need every grade I can get and now she's crying and saying I'm always so selfish and never help (even though I stayed home once before while /I/ was sick to watch him so she could go to work). She's hardly looked for baby sitters and the one she did find decided on another family because she didn't reply to the sitters email. She's had to stay out of work before because she got into a wreck texting and driving (which I told her to stop doing repeatedly) and had to wait to get her car fixed. She asked why I always do this to her and that she's going to lose her job and it'll be my fault. When I told her to just call my grandparents for help she said "You're dead to me, do you hear me?! DEAD" and stormed out. So. My question to you is: Should I stay home or should I go to school?"

Oh forgot to mention I have a d-hall tomorrow (I was tardy twice) and if I don't serve it I get I.S.S. and Saturday detention. Kind of mandatory that I go to school and that my mom stop being such a stubborn c*nt and just call my grandparents for help. What do you think?

Update:

I can guarantee you if the roles were switched she would tell me "tough ****" and that it was my problem not hers.

Update 2:

Yeah she just said (I believe this is the fourth time she's done this) that she's kicking me out and that she doesn't want anything to do with me anymore. Anytime she's upset she always says this.

3 Antworten

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  • Something Somewhere
    vor 8 Jahren

    I'd call your grandparents. Regardless of what your mother is feeling right now, a parent's priority is their children. She had children, not you. Sometimes in life you need to put yourself first, especially when other people in your life are being difficult.

    I don't know about your mother etc etc. But, she is having a rough time, I would try not to take it all to heart. Maybe, she doesn't want your grandparents to get the sense that she isn't coping?

    If you trust your grandparents, then call them. Maybe explain that you are worried about your mother? She might not thank you now, but if it helps her to find her feet it'll be better in the long run.

    All the best to you and your family. Chin up! x. :)

  • Aaron
    vor 8 Jahren

    As someone else on here said go call your grandparents. My advice would be to go to school and then after school go to detention.

  • Anonym
    vor 8 Jahren

    She is absolutely ridiculous. Pathetic. Stupid *****

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