What does this mean? thx for the answers?

What does this mean? thx for the answers?

i had a friend who had a crush on me (i am a female also) who was touchy feely, shed stare at my butt, touch my arm, try to rub my thigh or my back, undress in front of me, try to hold my hand whenever we were out etc ....well i didnt think anything of it until she kept doing it...i never had a woman hit on me... and i told her the feeling is not mutual on my end...i offered to be her friend like i thought we were (she was like a big sister to me) and i was crazy about her kids)we were friends for a year) and instead she told me to TRY HER with this big azz grin on her face i.e. =D ( i dunno if that was a threat, or what) she hasnt done anything) then after 6 months of not speaking to me, she calls and says lets catch up i said i dont feel comfortable seeing you, but we can talk on the phone.....she in turn says sasha its ok, everything is fine, no harm done.... after that she decides to never speak to me again but gives me dirty azz looks whenever she sees me and so i explained this issue to a pastor, and he told me that i am merely the consequence of her wrong doing.....he said its complicated, but you'll understand after while and he hung up the phone ...im confused about the quote he stated...is he saying im the reason for her bad behavior, or its my fault that we cant just be friends because im not gay and i dont want to be her gf/sextoy..and shes madly in love with me wand will never get over it...ever....or is he saying i did the right thing in declining to be her gf and have sex with her....im 29 shes 34 .....we no longer speak nor see each other (i know its for the best and for my physical safety that we dont see each other) outside of runins) i just wanted to be her friend not her lover....now im skeptical of meeting new people especially women...i just keep to myself now......