Just discovered my fiance masturbates to pictures of girls he knows on Facebook?

Question

My finace and I have been together for a year and a half (recently engaged) and for the last few weeks I have noticed that he has ejaculated into a tissue and thrown it in the kitchen trash before work (early morning before I am up). I don't know how long its been going on - I became privy to the situtation about 2 weeks ago. Curiosity got the best of me and I checked the history on his computer and realized that nearly every morning, he browses through the facebook profiles of roughly 15 girls that he knows. I need to preface this with saying that I do not mind or care about him viewing porn but that is not what this is. He is getting off looking at pictures of girls he knows EVERY MORNING. I am not sure what to do but he needs to be made aware that I am not comfortable with this. I know that he would not be OK if the roles were reversed and I was getting off to pictures of guys I know on Facebook. We have sex nearly every day and when we don't it is because he doesn't want to - so the reason for this is not lack of sex. Why can't he just look at porn like everyone else?!

? · Accepted Answer

This is what guys do.  We really don't need pictures because we have the most powerful sex organ available, our brains!  

And yes, we usually visualize women we know and don't have sex with.  Why fantasize about a girl where we can throw a leg over and give it a go? 

So, this guy is really something, doing you in the evenings and stroking in the morning.  And why not put the tissue in the toilet?  

It may be better to say nothing to him but use this knowledge.  There are likely things you can think of to do to his joy stick in the morning, right?  It will be most appreciated by him and the benefit to you is more endurance in the evening.

Aindreu · Answer

Him and every other guy. Most of us need porn for a fantasy, I guess he uses real people on facebook. Don't worry every guy masturbates almost every day so he's normal. The best way for you to solve this would be to just give him "special" attention in the morning. If you dump him for this, and find another guy you'll just be fooling yourself because if he's normal, he'll rub one out every morning too, you just won't know.

coco · Answer

Just my thoughts...He does not like porn cuz there is no way he will ever get laid by that porn star.On facebook ,however he knows the girls and at least has a chance.The question would be,would he do the deed if the opportunity presents itself???

Kyle M · Answer

For some people, fantasy doesn't cut it. If it doesn't have the possibility of being real, then they don't get off on it. Facebook would be a great place for a person like that to get masturbation material, and doesn't necessarily mean that he wants to cheat on you or anything.

Roland · Answer

Hmm,You're giving it to him everyday and he still  has to masturbate to pictures of his Facebook friends??? Sounds like an emotional attachment of some sorts.You can try making a porno together,and mabey then he can jag off to that vid,instead of Facebook friends.

Bob · Answer

sounds like he  likes  sex on a personal  bases  and still not  be  unfaithful to you,  porn is  all actors and  feels empty,  you have  to  give  the  boy credit, if hes  jacking over  fb  friends and  your  getting him at night, tells  me  hes  got  nothing  more  to  give  during the  day until hes  back to you.

Anonym · Answer

You need to tell him how you feel about it, I personally don't think it's normal behaviour and if he loves you he will stop.

Good luck!

Just discovered my fiance masturbates to pictures of girls he knows on Facebook?

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