Is it weird to not want a big wedding?

No not at all

No everyone want a big wedding

That why a lot of people elope

As long as both the couple will not regret not having a big wedding it's fine

If one of the couple will, than you need to fine middle ground

But there a lot of middle ground between a few people and a big wedding

You could look like going some where and make it special

Some people go on cruises other to a beach

I saw someone getting married on the glass over the Grand Canyon

Having family and doing something like that could be fun

Do not worry about your friends

If you decide not have a big wedding, tell people you have not picked a date

Then one day say I got married

Not everyone wants a big wedding and that is just fine. Whatever you do make sure that you make peace with the fact that t he wedding you get is the one for the rest of your life as they are no re-dos later. Do what you gt to do with no regrets. You have seen it all here "i never got the wedding that I dreamed of 3 months ago, so now we are planning a re-enactment and a post wedding shower etc." it is is the worse of taste.

there is nothing wrong with wanting to have a small affair. I think in the current economic state of the country right now it makes more sense to just have a small service and if you don't want to have the big reception after then don't. A few close friends toasting to your future happiness after your justice of the peace wedding at even your parents home should be enough if that's what you think you really want to do.

No.

When you come down to it, a wedding is God, the Couple, the Witnesses and the Celebrant.

Anything beyond that is 'icing'.

It is your wedding, not your friends'.

No I don't think it is weird. I think it's all about you and your hubby feeling endless love forever no matter how big or small your wedding is.

No. Not everyone wants a big wedding.

No. I'm actually on the same page as you