D.s Choosing or denying this dog?

You are the only one that could make this decision, but you have to consider a couple of things. First off, DO you have the time and funds to do this? I'm thinking you must, or you wouldn't even consider it to begin with. Also, if things don't turn out, you'll be the one who will end up surrendering her, which will put just as much guilt feeling on you as you would feel if you didn't take her. You stated that you didn't want your friend to further neglect her or have to surrender her. Don't let the feeling of guilt rule your decision, whether it be because of the dog, or that your friend might be ticked off if you say no. You have to use your HEAD, and do what you think is right for YOU.

Add: Ya, that's the thing about guilt. If you let this emotion rule your decision, you might make the wrong one.......BUT, people who have NO emotions of guilt, are also the ones that have no ethics and also sometimes are the ones who commit the worse crimes of all because they just don't know how to *feel* anything except for self satisfaction.

Oh, and one other thing...*I* have MY limitations, which has nothing to do with time or money as I have plenty of both. I'm OLD and will never have more than 3 dogs at a time. In fact, I have 2 right now and if I were to take in a 3rd dog, it would because I really, really wanted it. I have already turned down a couple of offers, one of which was a Bull Terrier. I know NOTHING about them, so therefore I don't feel I would be a suitable owner, besides the fact that it's a breed that I was never interested in to begin with. The fact is that we DO currently have a small mutt right now, which was my Husband's idea, not mine. He's dealt with all my Dobes for decades, so I guess he's entitled to have his small lap mutt if he wants it. That little fur bag is well taken care of, but I can tell you I'm not the one giving it kisses. lol I'm really not fond of *Tyler* at all, to be honest.

As good as your heart seems to be you might be taking on more of a situation than you think you're signing on for. It doesn't seem like this dog has had the type of care and attention that you have given your other dogs. I have had many dogs, including rescues and fosters, and they have all been in obedience training, fixed, and up to date on shots. You seem to be a similar type dog owner. The fact that this dog is 7 years old (set in her ways), removed from her litter at 6 weeks (which anyone who has an education on dogs understands affects their social development) and hasn't been around other dogs is something to be concerned about. We took in a Staff/Pit female mix at the age of 2 years. They are strong willed dogs. She ended up being very sweet and great with children, but I was in awe of her ability to grab a groundhog and break its neck in a nanosecond. We had cats which we had to watch for sometime before we trusted her with them. Do not underestimate her power. Staffs do tend to be animal aggressive even though I do not believe they are more prone to bite than other dogs. But I do believe if they DO bite, the damage is way more severe. You are also signing on for vet bills that should not be yours. If nothing else I would not bring her into your home until the owner has her up to date on her vaccines. You are risking the safety of your own animals. You will be picking up the spa cost, and her old age and extra weight issues. One more thing to remember. Two dogs is different than three. We learned the hard way that that third dog created a pack mentality in our home and the behaviors of the other two changed as well. Training became more important and you must maintain a strong sense of "alpha dog" in the family. That being said if you choose to take the dog (which most of us would because we are big softies) :) I wish you the best and she will be a lucky dog.

I would take the dog in. I am currently fostering a dog for someone who doesn't have a place for the dog to stay due to him losing his job. It took a little time nor my dogs to be ok with it but its worth it. The dog would have been sent to the shelter and most likely be put to sleep due to his old age. As long as you think you can handle another dog I think it would be great.

I'm sure I don't have to tell you that most pits are dog-aggressive. You already have your hands full trying to maintain a good relationship between the two you already have...who are just beginning to reach maturity and could in fact develop problems between them. That remains to be seen.

Adding a 3rd pit, or any breed for that matter, will upset the applecart. Not a good idea.

Help your friend to find another home for the dog, or perhaps get in touch with a pit bull rescue. It would be terrible if you took in this girl only to watch your currently happy home fall apart. Not worth taking the risk IMHO.

It sounds like you have answered your own question. You love the dog, she is already a part of your family. I have three dogs as well, they adapt, I am the pack leader, they are my pack.

if you have the money,time and patients then go for it

thisis really only a choice you and you fiance can make

Are you ready and I mean TRULY ready for a dog?

This is a decision that YOU have to make.