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leanne
leanne fragte in Society & CultureCultures & GroupsLesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender · vor 8 Jahren

Does this mean I could be a lesbian?

There's a woman that I think is cool.She's smart and funny and we get along. I don't feel any thing when I'm around her but one day was thinking of being with her, it was so weird. I'm not sure were this came from,so confused!! Could it be because I was hurt by a guy around the time? lol

Update:

I have thought of her more since! :s

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  • Anonym
    vor 8 Jahren
    Beste Antwort

    I believe that's just admiration. And if it was only "one day" that you were "thinking of being with her," it could definitely just be a "what if" thought - especially if you then thought it was weird. If it feels weird, then it's obviously not normal for you; so, I'm going to have to say that no, you're straight.

    Just because you're hurt by men doesn't necessarily mean that you'll start liking women. I believe something too traumatic (to where the psyche might block it out) could affect sexuality - though not probable. Usually, it's evident that us gay people are gay from around the age of four. In your case, around that age, you would have had crushes on most - if not, all - girls in your class; you would have mostly fit in with the majority of the boys; you would have been adamant about sports or arts; you would have either played the dad or the dog when playing "House"; etc, etc.

  • Anonym
    vor 8 Jahren

    I've been through what you are going through. I was on love with my exbestfriend but at the time I was a baby dyke. Now she has a son & I'm lonely looking for Ms.right. I had 14 ex boyfriends & 3 ex girlfriends. My ex best friend was one of my exs with out knowing it. We always had sex while playing house. I was always the dude lol. I'm bisexual but I like women way more. Yet I'm still getting a pride tattoo....

    Quelle(n): My experience
  • BILL h
    Lv 6
    vor 8 Jahren

    yes it could be that you were hurt by a guy,but you could be bi-sexual.The only way to find out is to see if the woman has feelings for you and take a chance.

  • babeegirl
    vor 8 Jahren

    there are different levels of girl crushes, that doesn't mean you're a lesbian. i think this video should help you on youtube it is called 'girl crush' by jenna marbles. she pretty much explains it all in a funny way!:)

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  • ?
    Lv 4
    vor 8 Jahren

    No everyone thinks those kind of thoughts once in awhile. This doesnt mean you are a lesbian. I think you are over thinking this one honey :) wanna answer mine I`d help.http://uk.answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=201...

  • Anonym
    vor 8 Jahren

    Lots of people get feelings/thoughts like that sometimes.

  • Myself
    vor 8 Jahren

    Actually a girl-on-girl scenario is one of the top five female sex fantasies, so just based on this it would be very unlikely.

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