Father dealing with 14 yr olfd son?

I'm experiencing the same with my son. Fortunately I have been here once before with my eldest son. The key is to make rules and make sure he keeps to them. Kid's complain about rules but really it makes them feel secure and loved, because someone in the world actually cared enough to put boundaries in place. Also keep in mind that he will revert back to being a reasonable person eventually!

Hes also just becoming a teen, and you remember what that's like? chores and rules are anti teen mentality! lol, you just have to be firm with him, let him grow but dont let him do it until he finished his chores first! and as far as the rules go, maybe if you both sit down and talk about the rules, and compromise on if i dont fallow this rule this will happen, if i do fallow this rule i can go out with my friends type thing, let him grow and do teen things, but not without consequences for his bad behavior at home.

Don't buy or pay for his things and demand that he does it when I tell him and not when he wants to but this minute if not he can go get his own place to stay and do whatever he like