Doesn't my boyfriend care about my orgasm?

Ive learned a long time ago that the day you start faking it is the day you can kiss goodbye to great sex with that boy.

Wait a minute, humping your belly? :''D Dafuq!? Hahaha

You need to tell him what to do. Its okay if he cannot last long, some men have less stamina than other but this can be fixed. Suggest that he googles kegel exercises and does them, trust me they WORK!!!!

Back to telling him what to do, honey if he cant last long then he really needs to start using his hands and mouth. He needs to get you very very excited in foreplay before intercourse, that will help you orgasm faster, perhaps even with him. and there is nothing more amazing than climaxing together. Tell him, quite explicitly what it is that you need him to do. Chat about it openly, tell him that you dont want to fake anymore because you love him and you wnat the sex to be the greatest all the time, every time.

I assume you are doing things for him to make him happy.....you might want to mention how you like it too.

His idea of foreplay is very juvenile, he may just not have a clue how to get a woman off. I don't know his age but if he is in his early 20's, you get to teach him.

You might want to watch a few adult films together...so he can see how it's done. Check out a film by Cameron Grant.

If he is a bit older and has had other women before you, it sounds to me that he really does'nt care much about your pleasure and only his.

It's rare for women to orgasm so if u expected to do that more, you should've been born a guy.

Communication is the key, tell him to go down on u and finger u, and ask him to stop humping your belly, b/c though it's funny as hell when I read that, it's just plain weird. Lol

Do u go down on him? If not start....and again, girls rarely orgasms. So if u want great sex a douchebag is for u other then that u guys have a talk it out or show each other u want to be with each other.

you should talk to him!! clearly he is either inexperienced, or just doesn't care.

if it's the first, then you could share your feelings, and needs, and let him know that you're not happy. tell him to go down, and tell him what you like and don't like. A lot of guys have the impression that women don't even have orgasms (!!) and so, they just let it go.

and if he doesn't care, well, it's time to let him go....you won't be happy in this relationship anyways.

And he is going to keep doing it all the same way until you either talk to him to fix the situation or talk to him to let him go, only after you explain how miserable he is going to make every single partner of his in the future.

maybe he just is not aware of your sexual abilities. maybe instead of tackling the problem head on with him, kind of lure him to think of sexual foreplay. maybe introduce the idea of dressing up, etc.or masturbating before he puts his thing in you, or maybe you should ride him? another way is just to have fun by seeing if you can do all the positions from karma sutra. LOL

I don't understand why girls fake it. It's insane. I always make my gf get off, i lick her, use fingers, rub all over her, spit on..... anyway... too much info. Be honest. Lying about it wont help.

have him finger you first to orgasm so you have your fix then just have sex, lots of girls cant even have a orgasm during sex so

tell him he sucks.