I'm not sure what to think?

Question

I'm in the home stretch of a separation, which has been more or less amicable. I was visiting my 3 sons today, and my 13 year old told me that his mom had borrowed his laptop a couple of months ago, and that when she returned it, there were a bunch of animal porn sites in the history. He's never been a liar, so I don't have any reason to not believe him. I'm not sure what to do about this. I don't know if there's anything to gain by confronting her with this. She's a self described compulsive liar, so I really don't know what to believe about her. Are my kids safe with someone who views that kind of stuff?

Update:

It just doesn't sound like a lie, Ade, especially the way he said it, out of the blue. And I'm pretty sure that his character is solid.

Diana D · Accepted Answer

That is just plain unstable, especially when she borrowed her son's laptop to watch it. Pray the best for her, cut your losses clean, and take your children with you!

Stephen · Answer

I dont know man, im 21 i dont have any children or anything but i think maybe you and only know deep down if they are safe with her, after all you were with her long enough to have a child etc.

Rorydee · Answer

Tell her that if she is going to look at those kinds of pictures, then she needs to delete the history or use a different computer.

You can't control her actions, but you can tell her to keep it away from your child's eyes.

Ade · Answer

Was it repeated over and over? It might have just been curiosity. And, yeah, kids never lie.

? · Answer

Defenetly not. She may show it to them when there older, or worse even now.

I'm not sure what to think?

5 Antworten