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How would you respond to this message? I don't want to sound rude in my response?
Hi, I'd appreciate if you do not keep in touch with me through calls n msgs. Am just not comfortable with it. Hope you will understand n respect it. Wish you all the best for ur life ahead. God bless you. Take care.
Note: This was sent to me by someone i know from a long time and we had a fallout recently...i fell as mature adults we can still keep in touch, without expecting anything out of the relationship...plz suggest!!
Thanks in advance!!
Thanks everyone for your views!! I haven't yet decided how to respond...i'll give it a deep thought & decide.
8 Antworten
- ThappadLv 6vor 9 JahrenBeste Antwort
No need to respond at all.Even if you give any reply it will be awkward on your part.So delete it.
- vor 9 Jahren
The best way to relay information without offending is to used the POS, POS, NEG, POS formula sandwich. Basically, to make 2 affirmations, then follow up with what you want to say, and lastly end with a positive note.
++-+ for the above message would work something like this:
"I completely understand your point of view. It's the smart thing to do, to let time do it's thing. I think we're both mature enough to pick things up when the time is right, but I understand it's best to let it go for now."
Remember, to persuade someone, they have to think your goals are aligned. Just arguing that they are wrong, will only frustrate you both.
Quelle(n): 4 hour work week, One sentence persuasion e-book. - Anonymvor 9 Jahren
Just don't respond. You can't force someone to keep in touch if they don't want to. and if you really do, maybe by ignoring it, it will bother them. You don't want them to have any emotional sway over you, so don't let them. Take the high road of silence...because it's so much easier to say whatever you want behind a computer or cell phone screen.
The classy ones speak to one another in person.
Good luck! Don't let it get to you.
- vor 9 Jahren
well yeah its some what weired but either just send her a mes asking for one meeting and try to talk her there else just do what she asked for,if she miss u n wanna come back she will return on her own and even feel that u r not that king with whom she feel uncomfortable..
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- vor 9 Jahren
You wanna blow his mind? Simply put "Okay :)" Make sure to add the smiley.
He is expecting you to whine, and plead with him to stay in touch. So..don't. Don't degrade yourself like that. Simply go out with pride with the Okay.