How do I decide if he's a good guy if he keeps messing up?

i completley understand. my boyfriend is the same way. communication is definatley key in a relationship. are you guys spending too much time together? if you get mad all of the time is it small things? if you need to you should take a break from each other sometimes. dont tell him that though like "we need to take a break" it'll seem like you want to break up, just dont call him for a while. then after a day or two, you'll realize how much you've missed each other and come out in a more positive manner, and he'll want to listen to you more.

if he does things repeatedly when you've already mention it to him many times, give it to him straight. let him know what he's doing wrong and that it hurts you.

♥best wishes

Would a good guy keep messing up? You have to decide If a good guy is what you want. This is why so many good guys think women want bad guys.

A woman bought a snake on terms that the snake said he would not bite her. Well as soon as she got him home and reached to pet him, he bit her. She said you promised not to bite me, he said sorry it will not happen again. The next day she reached to let him and he bit her the second time. She said to him, hey you bit me again and you promised not to bite me. He said sorry, it will not happen again. The third day, she reached to show the snake some TLC and the snake bit her for the third time. She screamed, hey you bit me again and you promised. The snake was so sorry and said he would not do it again and to please forgive him again. She forgave him and took him outside on the patio to a different scenery. She decided to rub him so she reached for him and he bit her again. She was so frustrated, she called her best friend to tell her that the snake had bitten her not once, twice or three times, but four times four days in a row. Her friend said to her, let me get this straight, you did say it was a snake right?

Just keep talking to him, and make sure he's listening. Make sure he knows how you feel. If he still isn't listening in about a week or two, I would break up with him.

I always tell my daughter to be completely honest with him about how you feel. If he keeps messing up in your eyes then you may be looking for reasons not to be with him.

Well, you don't really clarify about what he's messing up on... Is it possible that you're being overly critical? I dunno, maybe he is messing up, but if he's not "perfect" (as no human being is.), and you expect him to be at all, you're probably gonna be let down.

Nonetheless, talk to him about it.