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Is it possible for a husband actually make a wife cheat on him?
One of my buddies is having a hard time and I'd like some opinions to show him besides mine. His wife is trying to convince him that if he was a better husband she would not have fallen in love with the other man. The story goes like this, they have been married for 7 years+ and have had their problems. She is saying that since she has felt emotionally starved/neglected she was basically "forced" to get her emotional needs, then later physical needs met outside the marriage. Or, because of his treatment of her that he sat her up to get befriended and later seduced by another man. The other man is an illegal Mexican laborer 15 years younger than her that works at the same place she does. Opinions? References? Websites? Any help would be great.
2 Antworten
- Warren DLv 7vor 10 JahrenBeste Antwort
You've asked about this man before and I would say the answer in this case is no.
I don't know of any way a man can MAKE his wife cheat on him--even if he wants her to and tries to force her into an affair. She still has free will and she still has the power to resist even a strong temptation to cheat.
I would say (1) the wife is a spoiled brat, (2) she dislikes her husband, (3) he'd be better off rid of her.
I would not go so far as to say he might not have done things that contributed to her cheating--I don't know either of them and I don't know what went on in their marriage. But mature and responsible spouses of either sex don't cheat. She is making excuses for her own selfishness.
Quelle(n): My first wife was most likely faithful the first five years of our marriage. She began cheating when I was overseas in a combat zone. I was willing to forgive that if she grew beyond a one-time affair. She went on cheating and I put up with it entirely too long. Best decision I ever made was to dump her. - vor 10 Jahren
I believe a wife could be drawn to cheating because of her husband, but i'm thinking more in the case of the husband being overprotective to the point that it causes arguments, or if he tries to control her life and the men she sees out of jealousy. That could force her to spite him or to act out desperately by cheating. However, in the case of your friend, i would say that he DIDN'T make her cheat. If she was feeling neglected emotionally and physically, then that should've been the sign that they needed to talk about it. She shouldn't have gone off to seek a release for her needs when her husband had done nothing wrong. That's unfair and cruel.
