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Can you actually make a woman cheat on her husband?
One of my buddies is getting beat up by his cheating wife and I'd like some opinions to show him besides mine. His wife has him convinced that if he was a better husband she would not have cheated on him. Since he emotionally starved her he "forced" her to find comfort in the arms of another man. And that the guy is 15 years younger than her, 42-27, and probably carried under 10% body fat really has nothing to do with it? Opinions? References? Any help would be great.
11 Antworten
- vor 10 JahrenBeste Antwort
People make their own choices you cant force them to do anything. Im in a similar situation. If she was "emotionally" starved then he might have been too. however he remained faithful she did not. I also tried to blame myself as its bad enough your partner cheats but personally its the lying and deceiving that hurts more. If you believe its your fault you believe you can fix it by trying harder yourself.
Thing is it isnt his fault at all, shes not accepting blame and therefore hasnt even accepted the damage she has caused with her actions. Let alone trying to rebuild his trust. If your reading this mate please dont make the same mistakes i just have, i know the other option seems worse but it cant be? she doesnt care for you more than herself please get out of there if this is her attitude she is manipulating you. Yes you helped create circumstances that led to temptation but she chose to cheat shes no good im so sorry im a similar situation myself .
- Warren DLv 7vor 10 Jahren
Having had a cheating wife I don't really buy that crap at all. She cheats because she's a cheat. Best thing he can do is lose her. I'd recommend he slap her around a little in the process, but men get thrown in jail for stuff like that.
My ex actually told me one time her boyfriend was considering putting out a contract on me. While I didn't really take the threat all that seriously it was the one thing that convinced me to move out a couple weeks sooner than I was already planning to.
Your buddy needs to disconnect from the lying b*tch, take a social vacation for a year or so and then come back in the dating scene when he's ready. He will be amazed at how many women there are that are better than she is.
I'm glad he has a friend like you who cares about him.
Quelle(n): Been there, done that. Got the T-shirt. - SinisterGrinLv 7vor 10 Jahren
Of course not. Not having your emotional and physical needs met can be a contributing factor in infidelity but ultimately we are all responsible for our actions. The onus is on us. She refuses to take responsibility for what she has done. The decision to cheat was hers and hers alone.
- ShawnLv 4vor 10 Jahren
If this is true.. does the reverse work for starved men who's fat wifes no longer give it up?
Course.. if he cheats.. she'll steal everything in divorce court. Poor bastard...
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- Anonymvor 10 Jahren
LOL, she is crazy. She may be neglected by her husband but all she is doing is making an excuse to seduce and bang the young stud
- vor 10 Jahren
As far as I'm concerned....If you are intentionally witholding sex and affection in a marriage they should be able to find it else where.
This woman actually SUED her husband for not having sex with her.....and WON!!!!
- Anonymvor 10 Jahren
That's b.s she should have had a talk with him. Once again here's more proof that people don't remain faithful and if its in their face they will cheat. That's why I have an open relationship with ky wife, we both cheated. 98% of couples cheat after 2 years, fact.
- Anonymvor 10 Jahren
No, his wife is a dime store h00ker. Hey, I am just the messenger, don't blame me, I didn't marry this b&tch.
- Oakville RocksLv 6vor 10 Jahren
You will be having an affair with your friend's husband in 3,2,1.....
- Anonymvor 10 Jahren
She's there with him only for sex and this's not a marriage.