I Taking a survey both men and women athiest or Christian and the Muslim point of veiw welcome too. How?

The woman needs someone she can trust to confide in, to discuss what

concerns her about intimacy. She will have to feel safe to do this because

she often really loves and respects her husband at the same time.

She needs counseling. (Perhaps the husband does also, not sure).

Women deal in feelings, not that they are irrational ,they aren't irrational,

but they must be able to talk about feelings. There might have been abuse

in earlier times, or her own body might be extra sensitive. But she knows

and it's locked in there until someone gently gets her to unlock it.

And she won't do that unless the person assures her that everything

she says is private unless she gives explicit permission.

Before I answer this question you needed to answer one yourself. What benefit am I trying to glean from this? Is it to promote abuse or to promote working together? Here is my answer.

A woman is separate from man and yet God gave woman to man as a help meet. What happens when you are abusive to a person? Do they want to help you cause they love you or is it because they fear you? Is fear love? If the woman wants to leave her clothes in every room of the house did you not know this before you got married? If you did why does it bother you now?

A help meet is someone who helps meet needs. Your help meet has needs too. Are you taking care of your help meets needs too? If you are not then how can she help you if she is worried about her needs? This is Maslow's hierarchy of needs at work. We all have the same needs but we do not pursue them all the same way. Some times it is a matter of communication to find out if the persons needs are being met.

As far as a husband being able to make love to his wife it is not a right. It is a privilege that is contingent on the feelings of each individual. No sex does not mean anything other then a person's needs are not being met. It does not mean lack of respect or love. It is a fear. It must be communicated between the people what the problem is and with out fear of reprisal.

Peace

Today statistics show that 70- 80% of divorces that take place today are initiated by women. I don't know what men are doing that women are getting so intolerant .

without reasonable council marriage can't survive and end up in separation of family , with this children are severely damaged mentally .

Get it through your head: A woman is NOT a possession. Sex is NOT a right. Just because some religion says it is doesn't make it true. Treat your wife like a human being instead of a slave or a child, and you MIGHT save your marriage - but I doubt it.

My point of view is as a human being. If you can't see your wife as equal to yourself, then you might as well give up now.

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What o.0?

A woman is not obligated to follow your rules about her clothing, and only needs to make love with her husband when she wants to as well. "Reasonable council" is not going to force her to do things she doesn't want.

Ask a marriage couselor

Anytime a husband thinks that he is superior to his wife and that she should submit to his authority, there is no marriage. There is a contract. Clearly, you don't love your wife and your wife doesn't love you. My opinion anyhow.

Women are not cattle or chattels. Women deserve the same respect that you want.