why would they hurt me like this?

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hey, 
I am struggling with this now for 1 year. My boyfriend and i met online. but i love him. and there is no chance that i want anyone else than him. He is the one for me. <3  In our church there are so many teens, well i don't think i have a lot of friends. They might just use me if they need someone to talk to , or just to sit with. My family and i just moved close to there.. so it annoys me why some people can be so mean.. i'm 18 years old.  I feel like i have no friends.. and i am hurting from the inside. Sometimes when i talk to my boyfriend.. i don't think he really loves me because he likes talking about  sleeping with me, as soon as we meet. I don't know what to do.

Anonym · Answer

First off, i'm sorry to say, but your bf isn't worth it. first, he's an online bf and he only wants to sleep with you! that's a big sign. i'm sorry but i think he's using you.

Right now you're going through a confusing period in your life. you're trying to find your friends, and figure yourself out. Don't worry about finding the one. The thing you need right now is confidence! I used to be a lot like you when i was 18. I forced myself to get out of my shell. i'm 24 now and I'm so much happier. do what's best for you and build confidence!

Anonym · Answer

if he keeps talking about sex, u should stay away from him.
definitely weird.
normal young guys think about sex constantly but they never keep talking about it to girls online.
that's just plain creepy.

u should go out and make some friends.
don't be paranoid.
u are a nice girl so i guess some ppl find u nice too.
make a lot of friends first and then start dating when u find speical someone.

why would they hurt me like this?

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