I need some advice, please help.?

I think you should probably try to distance yourself from your co-worker. I know you can't completely avoid seeing him, but try not to socialize with him anymore. Just keep it to a minimum. If you choose either option 1 or 2, bad things are probably going to come of it. You'd be ending two good relationships for one that might not even work. You should give it a few months and see if your feelings go away at all. It could just be that you are feeling a little restrained by your relationship right now and you feel like finding something new, but it probably would be better to give it some time before making a decision you can't take back.

Good luck.

It's funny I been with this company for over 10 years and told myself I never mixed relationship at work and been really good at it but just recently I started fancying this guy that works for us but he is not in the same building. But either he or I are dating anyone.

Anyway back to your situation.....if you love your current boyfriend and really care for him, then I don't think you should get distracted with this co-worker. What happen if you dump your boyfriend and go for this co-worker and what happen if it doesn't work out???

It's a tough decision when you have emotional feelings for him.

I wouldn't cheat on you bf though because what if the co-worker think you are a cheater and he might not even respect you for that if he is a decent guy

I never consider myself a cheat either, but i went too far with step1, just a LITTLE too far, and that was enough to become a cheater, so DONT DO OPTION 1. don't just breakup with your bf yet..give it time. There's a reason you moved in with him. It's pretty common to feel "happy" around dudes that you are attracted to, especially in a hell hole like the work place. Are you attracted to the guy? If so, then you should just step back away from the situation and tell yourself what's going to happen if you do each option. I think you should stay with your bf. OPTION 3 IS BEST.

My advice to you:

Make two lists of the pro's and cons of both guys. Weigh them out and see whats up against both of them. Think about all the times your boyfriend has been there for you...think about all the times the co worker has helped you with problems do the same thing for your boyfriend. Just think about it..hard I mean really because you don't know what you've got until its gone. And once its gone its hard to get back and sometimes you cant get it back. Don't cheat its a terrible thing to do, it hurts you and your loved one. It breaks trust and most importantly love gets wasted and thrown out the window..just think about the good things and bad things about each guy and weigh them out then make your decision.

`stik wit ya boi..well thatz what i would do but it is ur decision bt just think..is it worth loseing ur boifriend that u have so many great memories with that uv loved thru the good and bad times...and think about how u would feel if u were on the other end of the situation..and think about how ur coworkers gf of 2 years would feel.. if u think it is worth it then u should go for it!:))

good luck and i hop[e things work out:))

o ya i almost forgot: and if ur co workers da kine of guy that would leave his gf for some one else then dont you think later on if u date him he could easily fall for some one else and do the same thing to you as he is doing to his current gf ?...

first you should find out if your coworker DOES have feelings for you. and if yes, decide which one you like more and take that one. if you like your coworker more than your boyfriend, you'll never be happy with your boyfriend. its best to get rid of him now before he gets even more serious about you and you hurt him more. and hes just your boyfriend not your husband for gawsh sake! so its not technically cheating if you break up with him first. oh and if you pick the coworker, make sure he ditches his girlfriend before going out with you, cuz hes probably in the same situation. and if you decide to keep your current boyfriend, try to find ways of avoiding thinking about your coworker. good luck :)

Think how much you would miss the one you love now. This might be a good test for you if you and your boyfriend will ever have a future.

Here's a good quote for you:

If you choose between two guys, always pick the second one; If you really loved the first one, you would have never thought of the second one.

You love your boyfriend , but you are lustful towards your co-worker....Which one will last longer? ....50 years from now...which one can you picture yourself holding hands with under the stars?.....

"if it aint love then it just aint enoght to leave a happy home"- Don't Cha by the Pussycat Dolls