Parents found out my boyfriend and I had sex...?

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My boyfriend and I are both 16, and have been dating 2 years. We are sexually active, and my parents found out by finding a condom. Now, my parents are more on the liberal side, and I honestly don't care about the trouble I might be in compared to my boyfriend. My parents want to tell my boyfriend's parents. My boyfriend's parents are really archaic-religious, and I don't even know if I'll be allowed to see him ever again if my parents follow through. He is my first, and I am his first, we use every precaution available, and I know even if by some chance we don't make it to marriage, I will never regret him. How can I convince my parents not to tell his/or is there an easier way to help my boyfriend's parents digest this?

Thanks.

Tiff · Accepted Answer

Well say what you have said here. Except maybe let them know that you will also get on birth control. Tell them I know this is hard to hear but this was a very long and thought out thing it didn't just happen. If you are truly worried for your boyfriend then make a pact to each other to wait to have inter coarse again until marriage. There are other things you both can do without having sex! Also tell your parents this is something that he should be able to share with his parents,. Let them know how afraid for him you are also. That he means alot to you.

inmyveins. · Answer

Were your parents mad?
Well, you're 16. I don't know where you live, but in a lot of places, that's the age of consent.
Tell your parents that you understand why they'd want to tell his because it's important that they are a part of his life, and know what's going on, but it wouldn't be in anyone's best interest to tell them about him and you being sexually active.

**Haley** · Answer

Have him tell his parents himself. Parents always give credit for that..

Parents found out my boyfriend and I had sex...?

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