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what should I do? Sister problem?
My Sister has been going through a tough time. I finally got her to talk to me. for 4 years her and her husband of +20 years have been having threesomes, well one thing led to another and she developped feelings for the other girl. She is torn and confused, loves them both and doesnt know what she should do.. some of the things are: If she leaves him - the house has to be sold...they are not young realtively he is retired she is about 10 years away from retiring. She is scared to pursue a relationship with her new"Crush" and where it will lead , and of course he knows the way she feels. Its a real mess. Any suggestions that I should be telling her;
If I tell her -dont be stupid. what are you doing I will seem like a bad sister. I ahve asked her to way her Pros and Cons and she cant go a day without crying morning noon and night.
I have suggested councelling for her and for her to stay here for a couple of days away from both,,,so she can clear her head.
DM he offered. to keep it as a 3some .>but " my sister " said No-- and She doesnt know which one she really wants to be with...
3 Antworten
- Anonymvor 1 JahrzehntBeste Antwort
The grass is never greener - but new lover always looks better then the old - that is the nature of love and infatuation. The new girl is exciting and so fulfilling on every way and the old guy is familiar and yet she has a 20 year investment.
When push comes to shove I think you have to bet on the 20 year relationship - you know this has worked. She is being a fool thinking that new relationship is going to substitute. If she wants out of her marriage then fine - end it but then take the time needed with NO ONE in her life to heal and begin thinking clearly before she decides on a relationship with anyone of either sex.
It is always a mistake to end a relationship because another one seems more enticing
- deloeraLv 4vor 4 Jahren
feels like she desires a fact verify. If she started getting classes she should not be relatively annoyed like that. per probability she's having a complicated time at school or does not get alongside o.k. with friends.
- Anonymvor 1 Jahrzehnt
Has she asked her husband if this is a problem for him?
Maybe he could live with her loving both of them.
