Am I being superficial?

Question

So recently a female friend has let me know that she's interested in me. She's a great person. She's funny, smart, and even sings beautifully. However, there is one drawback which keeps me from being in a relationship with her. Her weight is between 200 - 250, but it isn't really the weight so much as she isn't working out actively. When she goes out to eat, she has a meal with fried cheese all over it! Then gets seasoned fries and extra ranch! Me I get a nacho salad. The difference is that her meal alone is 1250 calories, while mine is 850. I am definitely not in shape, but am at least trying to work out at least twice a week and do cardio. Does this seem like I'm being superficial? I've given her the friends talk, and I'm not leading her on or anything.

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maybe im superficial too but, u like what you like.
for me, personal appearance is a major point in a relationship. if im not attracted to them physically then, i dont see the relationship going anywhere. however, if you like her and want to start something but its more so the HABIT and not the appearance that get to you... maybe just ask her to work out with you? something casual like a light jog or even simply a walk in the park?

i dont think tis superficial. everyone has things they do that we dont like..

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you arnt being superficial, i hate it when people, say "looks have nothing to do with a relationship" cus that bs, if you dont want to make love to someone than how can you really love them

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Anonym · Answer

Some people say they like fat chicks because they are cuddly, but so are koalas but I wouldn't do one.

cheerdancelove · Answer

if you truly loved her you would be able to look past all of that but clearly you havent so i would say yes

Am I being superficial?

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