I was sexually assaulted at school. What should I do? PLEASE ANSWER?

Question

There was this person who I thought was my friend, but when we were alone just talking he suddenly said "I think you're attractive, can I kiss you?" and I said "I don't know" because I kinda didn't want to, but then he kisses me  and tries to pull down my shorts to perform oral sex on me or just look at my genitals, but I stopped him.

I know i have no right to be complaining about this since it's not even that serious, but I just feel so dirty and violated and disrespected and stupid for letting it happen and that I had my first kiss stolen from me. Where can I turn to? School ended today so I can't tell my counselor and I'm AFRAID my family would get mad or be weirded out. Is there anything I can do to feel better and solve this problem?

Princess · Accepted Answer

Talk and/or report this to whom ever you think it would help;

o Telling your counsellor, as soon as possible, would be good. 
o Your family and friends. Your parents wouldn’t be angry with YOU, it’s not your fault, they would want to help you. 
o A teacher. 
o Maybe even a support group.

They can support you, and advise you. You will help you feel much better afterwards and it will stop running through your head as much. You will get some closure and hopefully feel more empowered.

To me; your first kiss is the one you choose/consent to give it away. So your first kiss hasn’t really been stolen. 

Despite what happened, ‘Victims(you) are not the ones who have done anything that is wrong’ Dr. Phil. You’d done the best you could have in the situation at that time.

Hope you feel better and Positive energy to you.

♥ Muchos Besos ♥ · Answer

It is serious and you have every right to complain!  I am so sorry this happened to you sweetie!  This boy had absolutely no right whatsoever to do what he did.  As tough as it might be you need to tell your parents.  You have nothing to be ashamed of because you did nothing wrong.  Together, you and your parents can make the decision of who to contact.. school administrators etc.  In the mean time just try to avoid this person and find someone to confide in and talk to.

Anonym · Answer

Okay this is very Serious . When Someone puts you in a situation where you think is wrong and not right this is assault you may say to your self just forget about it but you need to speak to someone you trust ! Right NOW and get this problem over with . Your mum or dad sister brother friends ANYONE but you need to speak to someone its the best way to get things over with !

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NeVerFade` · Answer

The 'Answer man' was right. This is serious. That jerk should be punished by law and I hope he'll be deemed  to what he did. I know this may sound wrong but anyway .. let your parents know what happened and let them help you and please please inform the authorities cuz they're the ones who'll kick this guys ***. And pretty much this will have a multiple-psychological effect on your teenage life.

Laura · Answer

It is serious!
It's not your fault. Make it really clear to him.
Your parents wouldn't be mad, you have done anything wrong! Get it sorted before it happens again.
Tell your parents! At least tell someone, you're not dirty and you haven't done anything wrong.

Tim · Answer

Call the school district. This needs to be addressed.

I was sexually assaulted at school. What should I do? PLEASE ANSWER?

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