Should me and my boyfriend break up?

Question

2 months ago I went on this trip with my best friend and her brother came 2
he's really nice and we were kinda flirting
well the next time i came to her house we kinda got together
and we've been together for almost axactly 2 months ...
but i realize that when he calls me i just kinda dnt pick up sometimes and he also kinda annoys me
but i think he's really into me cause he like talks about me all the time to my friend (his sister) and he like knows my phone number by heart ..
but then i also realized that i dnt really no anything about him
we barely meet each other cause he lives kinda far away and he doesn't go to my school and we barely talk about anything except like what we're doing right now and how the day was (when we're talking on the phone)
I'm his first girlfriend though and i no from myself that sometimes i make decisions to hasty ...
i dnt no what to do or how to react ...
please help me

Faydra Jaye · Accepted Answer

Get to know him. It's not a good or bad thing that you jumped fast, but get to know a little more about him before you break up with him. He may be good for you. Good luck to you.

maya · Answer

Well, you are in a low level of relationship. You don't need to break him up yet. I think just give time  bit till you can finally see yourself without him. Things happened sometimes that you didn't mean to, yet it happens to you. Just like that relationship you are now with. Take your time with him, and be sure when you decide things either positive or negative, you will not regret, be considerate, he is your best friends bro, and he is interested in you.

Anonym · Answer

i think the fact that your questioning your relationship says in itself that its not working out. He shouldn't annoy and long-distance is hard. I think there is someone out there that doesn't annoy you and that you could get to know better. The fact that he knows your phone number by heart shouldn't be a reason to stay with him. I'm sorry but i think you should break it off.

Good luck!

♪♫Lonely Soul тнє Red 3w0 Kyng™♪♫ · Answer

you shld talk 2 him on the phone and ask him cld u 2 just b friends and wait it out untl after u 2can actlly b 2gthr 2c how thngs turn out.......long distance relatiopnships sometimes work but dont always.....it seems as though u cld work but seeing tht u r n a long distance relationship ther will b many problms and u have 2 make ths decision

do wat ur heart tells u

best of luckz

may God be with u

banana bank · Answer

If you aren't really seeing each other, you're really only boyfriend/girlfriend anyway.

Why not stay friends and not worry about the title of bf/gf.  That doesn't mean you can't still talk now and then, and even flirt.

broderm2k · Answer

to avoid such situation the next time involve yourself with someone not becuase the moment permits but because there is some long chemistry going on, 
so ya unfortunately you have to leave the guy

imawesome519 · Answer

Don't break up with your boyfriend until you know for sure that this guy likes you.

stabstabstab · Answer

get to know him better...then ask yourself if u really love him. if no den break up . if yes, good luck and be happy ~~

. · Answer

I agree it's best you two break up. Good luck!

? · Answer

you should give it time and dont be too hasty about breaking up with him.

Should me and my boyfriend break up?

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