single forever!!!!!!!?

That doesn't mean that you've lost the frienship LOL, just because you haven't call them much .

It just literally means you haven't called much.

So?

Call them.

Friendships are the " lowest " on the interpersonal connection chain line, for a reason. That's why so much wacky things happen within a best friendship. So that it can be stretched, and grow and grow, and grow deeper every day : )

Allow yourself to make mistakes, especially within a best friendship. That's why it's a " best " friendship. Your best friend must probably have alot of patience and understanding for you. LOL. So, It's okay : )

Even if you choose to give up, you never know what good is really up your corner, even if it feels like and seems like realities of endless hell. Do not say " never ". If you wanna give up, then sure.

But never say never. 'Cause yah NEVER know what's really in front of you or up your alley : )

Don't worry about not having a boyfriend. You're 13. I didn't start dating until I was seventeen and none of my friends started dating until high school. You shouldn't be concerned and middle school relationships never work out anyway. They'll last 2 weeks to a month and then be over. Is that really what you want? Plus, having a boyfriend won't help you fit in anymore.

Right now since you say you don't have many friends, work on getting some friends first more than a boyfriend. If you're shy, I'm sure there are other people at your school who are shy too and maybe it'll be easier talking to them? It will keep your mind off of being single, because you'll have someone to hang out with and talk to about it. Friends don't care about looks--they care about personality. And if one of the close friends you make is a boy, maybe if you both feel the same way about each other, you'll date later.

Start with trying to talk to a girl or boy you sit next to in class. Since you're shy, maybe ask them for a pencil or a piece of paper, then another day say hi or complain about the amount of homework you have. Try little things that will eventually lead up to long conversations and friendships. You can even just leave a message (text, IM, voicemail, etc) to your old friend explaining to her how you are shy, but that you still want to be friends so that you warm up to each other again. That way you don't have to directly talk to her.

This is certainly not worth killing yourself over. There is so much more to look forward to in life: high school, getting your license, school dances, "first" moments with a boy, marriage, graduating from college, having kids, having grandchildren, being on your own, turning 21, owning your first house, etc. Just because you feel this way about dating now doesn't mean it's worth missing out on these other things. You're at that awkward age where you're growing and changing into the adult that you're going to be, so don't worry about looks. You'll grow up and you can be whoever you want to be. Just keep what I said in mind.

Sloow down ur getting way too emotional, stop and think about ur problem. What do u mean you cant help yourself, listen little girl look around you there is no one who is gonna fight ur battles for u not ur parents not ur friends, not the people on Y!A nobody. I see too many whiners and complainers in this world today and nobody likes a complainer so thats why noone will listen to you Btw you are freaking 13 yrs stop acting like ur a 45 yr old single virgin about to go through menopause, you have time but if u want a boy now u have to stop with the damn shyness. And being confident doesnt mean you have to talk alot its just ur body language and posture and it wont happen over night be patient. But whatever I wont get through to u anyways because ur probably too caught up in yourself to listen.

well Bibi you shouldn't worry about having a boyfriend right now u r 13 and i know i was the same at ur age but guys only want one thing and its not worth giving it up to someone. You maybe shy but u'll grow out of that you dont need to have a party Central life i have a sister around ur age and i am telling u what i would tell her take it easy relax dont kill ur self cuz life is great once u start to enjoy it and not worry about anything if u need to talk my name is Jennie and u can e-mail me or im me Jennie_hanlon@yahoo.com I will do my best to help u out as much as possable :)

being single is great you can have fun and not be tied down. your also only 13, I am 16 and Ive never had a girlfriend and you will eventually realize that it always isnt the best thing. im sure someday you will find a boyfriend, most people dont get their first one until highschool or college...

Huh? What a long mails...not a question, ja?....Tssk...don't kill yourself,....you are not alone. How old are you? 13 or 31?...You still going to be 13,5...14....15....etc...just wait,...may be you walk too fast and talk too much, so all boys run away from you. You must slow down, do not and never show them that you are looking for a boy...let them find you....walk and talk slower, ok?

No reason to rush things, you will find someone when you least expect it.

I didn't have my first until after high school. Some things are worth the wait =)

chika chiil! enjoy ur life cuz a) my bf who we were dating was making out with a slutty whore behind my back Msg me away from the question u sound like me b4 =)