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what should i do, i'm upset and my gf is upset?
ok so i've been going out with my gf 4 about 3 to 4 months now and we already had sex wit each other, and then i told about me and my bff that i have knew for 5 years that we we're going 2 hav phone sex (for fun)....She took it seriously and she got upset...Then my play daughter called me while she was on the phone...Then she told me if i cared 4 my bff that much, y am i going out with her...I couldn't respond off of that but she sounded like she was about to cry....I was about 2 cry 2 because i really didn't mean to hurt her feelings like that....Now 2day i'm going 2 tell her that i care for my bff n i love my bff, and i'm also going to tell her that i love her too, but my love 4 my bff is different from my love over her...So wat should i do, btw my bff has a bf that she wants to brake up wit and i asked her out b4 and she said that she was stuck...So wat does that mean
Your answers would be greatly appreciated
4 Antworten
- vor 1 JahrzehntBeste Antwort
Your situation is like mine in a way. In this situation, someone is going to have to let down, whether it's your girlfriend or your bff, or even both if you choose to not date either of them. What kind of love do you have for your bff and whaqt kind of love for your girlfriend? You have to determine that to see if your relationship with either of them will be worth taking it farther. Only you know them, so who do you feel wants the best for you? You sound like your an empathic person, which is a good trait but have it's bad moments like this. Until you decide what you want to do, I think it would be fair to back off of both of them.
- Anonymvor 1 Jahrzehnt
Right ok, considering you have a female best friend, that you obviously care about and find attractive, as you've asked her out in the past. It is highly insensitive to make jokes of that nature to your girlfriend.. Knowing most girls, it's probably already an insecuritie that plays on her mind!
If your best friend is breaking up with her boyfriend.. Why do you care?? When you've asked her out in the past and she's told you she was stuck on her decision.. It's left you with some hope that maybe you two could be together. Is that what you want? If she dumped her boyfriend and asked you to be with her, would you? Or would you even sit down and really think about it? If you answer yes to either of those questions. Leave your girlfriend.. Your heart isn't totally commited to her, and it's not fair on her.
If you however DON'T want to get together with your best friend, even if she becomes single. Explain to your girlfriend it was an insensitive joke and you're very sorry! Make it up to her. & DON'T do it again!
- vor 1 Jahrzehnt
Hmm, sounds like you two should stay away from each other for three or four days- 1 wk. Let it all cool down, then have a calm and loving chat to her. Let her talk too and tell her the truth, which may hurt sometimes but its always better than lying.
By stuck I think your bff means she is stuck between the bf, breaking up and accepting your date invite, that my understanding anyway!
