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cr fragte in Family & RelationshipsMarriage & Divorce · vor 1 Jahrzehnt

What to do for our 10th anniversary?

My husband and I are approaching our 10th anniversary. Not of our wedding but of the day we met. It was love at first sight. I found out he's getting me a spa day and he got a free night's stay at a hotel (through work). I would really like to do something great for him. He's always been hard to buy for. He's the kind of guy you get a gift card or give money to. I did have an idea though and would like some input/ideas. I was thinking it would be nice to get a beautiful wooden box and fill it with the mementos of our relationship; a wedding invitation, little gifts from when we were dating, cards we've given each other, stuff like that. I was also thinking, since he wears a suit everyday for work, that I could get him a nice tie clip or bar. And I will probably be getting some special "sleepwear" for our night at the hotel together.

I am just unsure. I sometimes feel weird about buying big things for him since he works and I am a SAHM. Of course I know it's our money but I still feel odd buying him extravagant things.

So if anyone out there has ideas, comments, etc. I'd love to hear them.

Update:

He can be VERY romantic. He saw something that I had been thinking of getting for him and told me he would rather have something meaningful and romantic rather than something he would get for himself. He is very much not the average joe type.

3 Antworten

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  • vor 1 Jahrzehnt
    Beste Antwort

    A small jack knife with an inscription on it. He will carry it every day and see your love. The kewshaw

    chive is real nice, and I know many guys who carry them. They also have a life time guaranty. And their not to much money. 20 bucks. But he will love it.

    Congrats on 10 years, you sound like a great wife.

    God bless

    jp

  • Anonym
    vor 5 Jahren

    Why are you delaying the inevitable? It seems that you don't want it to work out , as well as he. My husband & I are going on 10 years also ( Dec.) and eventhough we're not throwing an anniversary party... I'm pretty sure we'll be eating out or something. Why are you still together? Someone told me (at our wedding) that communication is the main thing in a marriage, because once it's gone ,well , so is the marriage. I suggest you have an open conversation with him. If both of you decide the marriage is worth saving then it would be up to the 2 of you. Good luck and I hope your marriage is not one of the many statistics.

  • vor 1 Jahrzehnt

    I really don't know any men that appreciate the romantic crap. It's great for any men that have the brains to do it but I think men are more gratified by the obvious...some sexy time, time away/alone together, or a gift that is something related to things HE likes (think some golf club hes been eying, or a box full of movies he hasn't yet bought for himself but loves). I think you're right to go the lingerie route. that's NEVER not appreciated. Leave the romance up to him though because if he's an average joe type I doubt he's going to be too into the box of cards or the tie.

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