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I'm tired of staying with parents.......help!?
I am 20 and live with my parents as I go to college and will graduate next year! My problem is the environment at my home is not pleasing and my parents always shout at me..about even a smallest thing.....
I therefore cannot concentrate in studies coz of this and I really want to live separate but I can't as I don't earn.......
Please don't say a word against my parents.... i love them.......
I just want freedom........
8 Antworten
- vor 1 JahrzehntBeste Antwort
Hon, you're old enough! Tell them the problem. It's hard. When they're shouting at you might be an OK time.
And you know there are college activities, right? You can get yourself involved in something like that that pays. Or, you can do some work and tell your folks it's for pocket money. My parents pay for everything. If yours do too, tell them you'll have to get your own life soon and working and getting some experience will help. Work somewhere small but pays ok. Then make your way up. Once bigger jobs and better pay becomes available, go for it. They'll know you're only trying to get more money. When you know you've earned enough to rent out a place, tell them. Tell them it;s time for you to move on. They might HAVE to let you. You'll be free. But if something goes wrong, you might have to move back in with your parents.
Now make sure the job doesn't take up too much of your time. Do small things and get some money from your parents as a sort of allowance. And do things you LIKE! Things that are fun to you so that your parents will think/know it's more for you to be happy and relax and get paid at the same time
But you know, staying with parents might be helpful for funding. You might need it till you're out of college. You can get a dorm or room somewhere nearby either home or college and ask your parents to help pay for the rent. If you really need your own place that is. You can go there every day for the rest of college. And the small, part time job will help a ton! You'll be able to pay 50% of the rent or more. You can go to your parent's place to stay overnight or something on the weekend once in a while. You'll see them all the time and they'll see you plus you'll have your own place to concentrate. They'll be taking care of you too! They're not excluded.
just an idea. Might not work but try. And good luck!
=)
- vor 1 Jahrzehnt
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I lived in two different foyers (due to moving city), but found they were both quite nice to live in. It is also a good way of making new friends, and it gives you great independence skills, with cooking classes and numerous others available.
Hope this is ok for you :-)
Quelle(n): http://www.foyer.net/ - Anonymvor 1 Jahrzehnt
when i was 20 i moved out... because of the same thing... for the first 3 months i lived with my older sister and didnt have a job... but then she lost her job so i had to get one. anyway i would suggest to just stick it out. looking back i wish i would have stayed at home. now i'm 23, still have not finished college... because i've had to work full time... school went from part time, to telling myself oh i'll just work 70 hours a week save and then go back to school. 3 years later... lol and i still havent finished. i still want to, but now i have bills and other responsabilites. i know its tough, but stick it out until you graduate, you've lived with them for 20 years... a year or 2 more wont hurt. then once you've graduated, get a good job, save for a little bit and move out! as for studying, go to the library, or stay at school longer and study there.
- vor 1 Jahrzehnt
wow sounds like you need a better job! oh wait there aren't any out there....
and thanks for your answer on my questions also... i would think you could have stated an educated answer to my question but i see you are just an immature child. Take your own advice, get a job, see how that goes for you. I'm also in college trying to make the most of a bad situation, while trying to find a job.
I think before you say smart remarks you know a little something about the situation first.
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- vor 1 Jahrzehnt
A job would be helpful and u can move in with roommates. You can also look into getting a student loan from your school, just dont tell them its for moving out of ur parents house.
Quelle(n): Im a 20yr old, college student stuck with my parents. I will be moving out by next yr. Hopfully. - DeeLv 5vor 1 Jahrzehnt
Well i guess my first Suggestion would be for you to get a job. This way you will be able to afford an apt of your own. Good Luck
- Anonymvor 1 Jahrzehnt
sue them, or say yor dad touched you in a cretain way!(: