What is a good man for you?

...an individual who is helpful, will not abuse, use or cheat others...

If you can keep your head when all about you

Are losing theirs and blaming it on you;

If you can trust yourself when all men doubt you,

But make allowance for their doubting too;

If you can wait and not be tired by waiting,

Or, being lied about, don't deal in lies,

Or, being hated, don't give way to hating,

And yet don't look too good, nor talk too wise;

If you can dream - and not make dreams your master;

If you can think - and not make thoughts your aim;

If you can meet with triumph and disaster

And treat those two imposters just the same;

If you can bear to hear the truth you've spoken

Twisted by knaves to make a trap for fools,

Or watch the things you gave your life to broken,

And stoop and build 'em up with wornout tools;

If you can make one heap of all your winnings

And risk it on one turn of pitch-and-toss,

And lose, and start again at your beginnings

And never breath a word about your loss;

If you can force your heart and nerve and sinew

To serve your turn long after they are gone,

And so hold on when there is nothing in you

Except the Will which says to them: "Hold on";

If you can talk with crowds and keep your virtue,

Or walk with kings - nor lose the common touch;

If neither foes nor loving friends can hurt you;

If all men count with you, but none too much;

If you can fill the unforgiving minute

With sixty seconds' worth of distance run -

Yours is the Earth and everything that's in it,

And - which is more - you'll be a Man my son!

Rudyard Kipling

A man with a cool head on his shoulders. One who works with his hands before he does with his mouth.

A good man is hard to find...or is it a hard..never mind..either way will work:)

a man that I can trust unconditionally, and will trust me the same.

a man that I can communicate with, and feel comforable talking to.

a man that I can love freely, and not feel obligated to do so.

a man that will respect my family, and my friends.

a man that will respect my beliefs, morals, and judgement.

the end of man is action,,,

therefore he who think what is good and act on it visibly is a good man,,

those who act otherwise, are bad.

A responsible one.

I guess none-- considering I don't believe in being 'in love' or 'soul mates' or marriage.

one who lives to work and doesn't work just to live.