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I hate my step dad.. :(?
Wow, this is a little bit confusing, sorry guys. but try to give me some advice? I really do need it.
Okay so my step dad has lived with me for 10 yrs now. And he has the worst temper ever. He gets mad at me for stupid reasons, and he always has to complain about something to my mom, and it just really pisses me off. And i just met my real dad about a year ago, because he left me and my mom when i was 3. And he's done stupid **** in his life, but almost everyone has, and he has indeed improved. And i spent 2 weeks with him. And the first day he came to get me, my step dad made my real dad, my step-sister and step-mom sit on the couch, and he just bitched about me, and all the bad things i've done, and all this crap, and he literally embarrassed the crap outta me in front of all of them, he even yelled at me in front of them and all this crap, and it really made me mad, that i was at the point of crying. So once that was all over i left with my step dad and we started talking about things, and he was really calm with me, and he even told me how my step dad was an asshole. And i ended up telling him i wanted to move there with him, (fyi he lives like 7 hrs away), and we talked about it the last week i was with him, and asked if i really wanted to move with him, and i said yeah. So he said that he would do paperwork and go to court for me if i really wanted too. && Now that i talked to my mom and told her everything she acts like she really doesn't care if i move or not. she even told my step dad that i was gonna move with my real dad, and he just got pissed off as usual, but it just makes me upset, cause i really don't want to move because all of my friends are here, and plus i love my mom to death, so the only reason i want to move with my real dad is because of my stupid step dad, plus it would be nice to live with my real dad for once. But i just feel that if i move with my real dad, i'll be happier because i wont have to deal with my step dad.
Ughh. I have no idea what to do, if i should move or what?
I know this is super long but i really want some advice.
4 Antworten
- vor 1 JahrzehntBeste Antwort
I know how you feel I am in this sort of situation myself my aunt is a ***** she complains and creates hell for everyone else in the house. ever since she moved back in I tarted to gain weight because of all the stress she is causing. Your mom is just upset that you are planning to move away really far not far but hrs away type of far. I know your mom loves you and wants the best for you but when you are in relationship sometimes its hard out get out of it. Go where you feel happy. get all your friends numbers and stuff and give them the address where you will be staying. If your under 16 years old you cant legally move out to live with another parent you need to go to court for that. If you are 16 you can move out when you feel like it. When you go to court they might ask you why you want to move out and you tell them the situation. Im pretty sure that they will let you live with your dad
- vor 1 Jahrzehnt
it would be really hard to start off new in a new place. but, it would be really nice to spend time with your real dad and have a better dad than the one you have lived with for 10 years. and even though you love your mom, tell her how much you highly dislike your step dad and even cry to her (dont use a hateful tone though cuz it will ruin it). but, if you plan on moving, always try to keep in touch with your friends
Quelle(n): friends who have had similar things happen to them - vor 1 Jahrzehnt
don't let your step dad bring you down.
if i were you, if YOU have the power and permission from your mom to move in with your real dad you should do so.
you're step father seems really mean and i'm sorry about that :(
if you are sick of him just move out. or better yet. tell him how you feel. tell him that you're sick of his attitude and you don't like the way he treats you and your family.
to help you out emotionally. have a night out with your friends :) enjoy your life. things like this shouldn't let you down.
venting is a great stress reliever so talk to a really really good friend (:
i know how you feel. my real dad is like this. but i learn to live with him by just ignoring what he does. i even told him to stop being so obnoxious and he listened to me :)
i hope that i helped and i wish u the very best
Quelle(n): my own life - L SLv 7vor 1 Jahrzehnt
Have you talked to your dad about whether he may be able to move into the area? Maybe get a job near where you are now?
It's sure tough if you have to leave all your friends so I was wondering if he may be able to move instead because it would probably be less destabilising for him than for you.
Whatever happens, I wish you the best with this - your step-dad sounds horrible.
