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Should I move to be with him?
So a really good guy friend of mine and me have been chatting ALOT lately.. we have all the same interests and dislikes, and he really wants to date me. I want to date him too, but he lives across the country!! He always brings up marriage in our conversations and even told me what he'd want to call our kids!! I am not tied down by job/school right now so I COULD move to his city. He told me if I moved there it would make his life. He wants to move in with me if I go there and he says he wants nobody else. But what I want to know is if you think I should. I have such strong feelings for him and I don't want to let my possible soulmate to get away..but I also don't want to leave all my friends and family b/c they would not at all understand. What do you think?
We have known each other forever he just moved last year to take care of his dad who is having a tough time right now. So I really don't need to get to know him better :)
And I have done the long distance thing with an ex who was in the army and it was way too stressful. I don't really want to be with someone I can't actually BE with. But thanks
Oh and yah he has offered to move here too but his family needs him more than mine needs me. It's def not one sided as this was all his idea in the first place
5 Antworten
- vor 1 JahrzehntBeste Antwort
I think you should follow your heart if you feel it could be good for you. But just keep in mind that if things go sour what will you do? Will you stay in the city and work/go to school? Or do you have a plan so you can get back home? As long as you plan out all the options, you should be fine no matter what happens :)
- ☼cieraelaine☼Lv 4vor 1 Jahrzehnt
I wouldn't....not yet anyways. There is such a thing as a Long Distance Relationship and they do work because I am proof. Just because you've been talking and talk about these things doesn't mean it has to happen right now. The worst possible thing would be to move there and it not work out. I would recommend talking and getting to know each other a lot better over the internet, phone, web cam etc. and then in at least half a year if you feel the same then consider it...wait a little longer then go. First, make sure that no matter what he has going on, that if need be he would move to be with you...you don't want it to be one sided. I've been with my boyfriend (Me in Georgia, Him in New Jersey) for almost a year now and he's been in school for the past year and a half, but I know if it was really needed he would be here in a second, same with me being there. Just think about it, talk about it, get to know each other better and make sure it's not a one way relationship. Make sure that moving is the best choice for you, for both of you. You don't want to alter your life that much and you not be ready for it. My boyfriend will be moving here in September and then we will be moving back up there within a year or two of that....just make sure he's willing to compromise and do stuff for you too.
Hope I helped <3
- Anonymvor 1 Jahrzehnt
U sound like the girl who I currently have a thing with who lives in texas and i live in Illinois. she wants to come up her but I dunno if its cause I been dissed lately and am hurt, why I reached out to her. or if I just like her. To be safe she is supposedly going to come out here for a week. and no we didnt met on the internet I know her she lived here before then moved.
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