Is it cool he still wants to be friends?

Question

So recently me and my boyfriend broke up, I found out he dated me for a bet, but once i talked to him about it, he said it wasnt just because of the bet he also kinda liked me too, and how he felt like a jerk etcetc. We talked on the phone right after we broke up, and he asked if we were still friends, and i said yes. He's really sweet, and he told me not to bother crying over him, because he wasnt worth it. So after an hour of talking on the phone with him i let him go, & i thought about it.. Would he ever want to be more than friends again?

This is really confusing, but i didnt want to explain EVERYTHING to you guys, so yeah, hope you can help(:

TAC7 · Accepted Answer

you could be friends but there is the possibility 
that every once in awhile something would arise 
creating a really awkward moment between the two of you.
If you find him dating someone else whilst your friends with him you could find yourself hurt as well.

It's really up to whether you think it's all worth it!

tasty little crackers · Answer

Uh do not be friends with this douchebag. He went out with you for a bet. Even if he feels like a jerk, which he should, that is degrading and disrespectful. No one should use you in that sense. People problably talk crap about you now, if you were a bet in the first place. Im sorry this happened to you, but you need to not talk to him, dont be friends with him, and say I accept your apology but we will never be friends. Tell him he is a joke, and hang up the phone. Dont even look at this guy. If he says something to you at school, tell him He is an ********. You cant be friends with someone who only went out with you because he got money. He had no interest in you from the start, dont talk to this loser

o · Answer

I think its great to be friends. It shows maturity in you both (something me and my exes cant handle lol). Im a believer that if you break up with someone the love or trust has to be gone. If you break up with someone to make a point, then get back together a little later, it tells them that you are not willing to work through problems and it makes the relationship a little less serious. Who told you he dated you for a bet? Guys say that sometimes just to be macho. They dont want to be all sappy and say that they wanted to make you happy.

Tesstess · Answer

Well, lemmie see.
He could, but DO NOT! I repeat! DO NOT! Come on too fast! Boys freak out some times. LoL. Don't feel bad about it. He could, might, maybe, wanna be more than friends. Don't get really interested, its hard to let go after a while.

Jose C · Answer

i think he still has feelings for you. So he could want to be more than friends at some point.

celine · Answer

yes soon he will want to be more than  friends because he got to know you for you.

Is it cool he still wants to be friends?

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