Is this ANOTHER weekend of DRAMA?!?

Question

Ok, me and my girl are broken up, but techinically we weren't together because she still has a girlfriend. Sooo, I sent her an email telling her "Im done being the 'other' woman; so Im out" She called me back asking "why Im saying all this & I need to be patient about her leaving her girl..."

Oookkk- so we go through the day with our normal phone conversations (we're students & entreprenuers with alot of free time-sorta) so she starts ranting about something going on at her job, and she was asking my advice (normally she doesn't, because she knows how I am) and I was all sunny & positive and she snapped and started yelling at me through the phone... I got mad (alright maybe sad) started crying and told her I had to get off the phone.

She calls my phone back 4x in a row and when I picked up she had the softest most honest voice-and she's very spiritual and into church so I truly believe she was sincere-she apologized and told me she didn't realize I was so sensative.
I truly have feelings for her and I want to be with her, but I'm willing to leave her alone til things get right on her end. Is this wrong of me?
+ When she called me back I told her a$$ off about yelling at me.

Anonym · Accepted Answer

Life is too short to wait around for ANYONE!

If she's not willing to make you a priority, RIGHT NOW why are you making her a priority?  Why are you waiting on her?

Stop taking her calls.
Stop listening to this crap.

Call up your friends, go out and live it up.  You're only going to be young once.

When she sees you've got your act together and you aren't hanging on her, she'll either choose to be part of your life, or not.  Either way, you haven't wasted a minute of your life.

Martin k · Answer

don't know why your standing for this, bottom line is it seems to me like shes having her cake and eating it, her lover one end, you on the side for fun or as you say drama, in the end for all you know she may never leave her girlfriend for you. So my advice is find a girl of your own first of all, because if she will cheat on her partner, what will she do to you in the end?

Im so amazed by some peoples standards how low they are, and they wonder why there unhappy, well solution is either she puts up or shuts up, she is either with you or not, no in-between, stand up for yourself and have some self respect, if she refuses, move on raise your standards and hope your next partner never plays behind your back, cause sometimes life dishes out what you throw it good luck. 

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Lark · Answer

Does she often switch gears like that, without any reason or warning?
It sounds a little like bipolar disorder, and if that's the case, you may want to put some distance between you and her. Even though she can't help herself, that's one illness that takes a strong person to deal with. And I know I couldn't handle it if I was in your place.
Is she seeing anyone for professional help or counseling?

Lisa R · Answer

just tell her to F off that girl is a B
if I ever saw one

what a lame- o

Votre chance ! · Answer

You need to find another friend, because living "another day another drama" is not good.

Anonym · Answer

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Is this ANOTHER weekend of DRAMA?!?

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