Should I stop telling my girlfriend about the guys and girls that hit on me?

Question

She has a horrible attitude and temper (unless she knows you) but she wants FULL honesty in our relationship.  We don't live together but we talk all the time, study together, and chill whenever we can. But since our school schedule is different, many of the guys feel puffed up enough to approach me when she's not around and the females hit on me harder now that they know I'm with a girl...
My StudMuffin knows she's the love of my life, but she feels like those people are fake and being disrespectful towards her.  I don't want her to snap and get put outta school, but I don't want her to feel like I'm hiding something. 
What's the middle ground.

Lexington · Accepted Answer

honestly i wouldn't tell her its not like you are hitting on them back your not harming anything by not telling her.  now if one of them just came up to you and kissed you or something them i would tell her.

T M · Answer

If it is innocent flirting on their part and you are only being polite by answer their questions and conversations and such then there is no need to tell your girlfriend about every single person that compliments you and tries to start up a conversation with you.  As long as you are staying faithful then there is no reason why she shouldn't trust you.

? · Answer

She sounds like a masochist. The middle ground is to quit bragging about all the people who hit on you, and REALLY think about her.

Avatar · Answer

Being honest with your partner isn't about telling them about every time you sneeze, it's about being honest with your actions and feelings, not everyone else's.

Should I stop telling my girlfriend about the guys and girls that hit on me?

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