Should I wait for her?

Question

My 5 yrs girlfriend, whom I was enged to, left me about a month ago now. She tells me she feels something for me but at the moment she doesn't want to either talk about it or act upon it. She then told me she has mixed feelings for this other guy for a while even when we were together, she doesn't know what she feels for him but she's not going to be in a relationship with anyone right now. We are now talking once a week and not seeing each other. Should I try and reignite our flame, or should I just let her go? Also am I playing the *** since she did leave me to see what it was she had for this guy. Is it stupid of me to wait for her? I love her too much I'm afraid, and am having trouble getting over the idea she's not gonna be my wife, specialy since she said she doesn't know what she feels right now

mike t · Accepted Answer

Life is life, and what will be will be. Nobody knows the future, we can only wait and see what happens.
if it was a friendship started at school, and grew from there, then the possibility is that it may not come back together, simply because she wants to experience something else before she finally settles down.
Good luck,
mike t.

Sarah · Answer

I tend to not like the idear of going back how ever u avent long been apart. It sound's like u really love this girl. U need to put some space between u both as she is mixed up with wot she feel's and while this is'nt her fault is not fair on u. let her find out wot she wont's 1st  b4 u make any move. Remeber there is always a reason things end in the 1st place. good luck.

salina856 · Answer

Get down on your knees and thank the higher powers that you did not marry her.  As a woman, and somebody from the outside, I can unequivocally tell you that you are being played.

Chalk this up as a valuable life experience, and move on!! You deserve that!!

Anonym · Answer

You no u should be happy u didn't get married to her im think of it this way u could of got married and then if she did that u would have to pay for all of that divorce crap so just let her go!!!

Should I wait for her?

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