How does a girl like me get a date?! btw i live in south bend ;)?

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How does a girl like me get a date?! btw i live in south bend ;)?
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http://photos-f.ak.facebook.com/photos-ak-sf2p/v360/239/108/563961583/s563961583_1482533_4015.jpg

im the fat girl... and that was more than a year ago so i propably weight more now...
how does a girl like me get a date? im in highschool and im terrified that i wont get a date for the next dance (january). now DONT tell me not to worry or to go with friends!! and dont tell me looks dont matter! theres guys who date skinny girls and theres chubby chasers, only i have no clue where to find those(and how to identify them).
oh yeah and dont tell me to randomly ans some guys out, im way too shy for that. now id love to make some more friends too, im new at my school, but theres not really a wide range of clubs after school... what should i do? its not like im wandering around school all depressed or something... im a very positive person (i know i know, but i really am!), im just no too much into starting conversations with "strangers", too shy for that...

Belle · Answer

Ignore the ignorant comments. To be honest you dont look huge you look like you can be in proportion if you wear the correct clothes plus you have a pretty face.
You have a few options either accept the way you are and love yourself and work on your confidence and im sure there will be a guy who will like you for you. You can work on losing some weight by doing exercise and eating healthy and generally work on making yourself feel attractive. You can also work with different clothes styles, makeup styles etc that compliment and suit you. If you feel good and work on your confidence you will get a guy! Guys like girls to be confident and happy. Be happy :)

wth · Answer

The chubby chasers will find you.  They did me.  Just make sure that you stay approachable.  Don't carry a sign that states this.  You will be fine.  Try using face book or my space to your advantage to start conversations.

TimTheEnchanter · Answer

I know this sounds creepy, but it's true; everyone has a secret admirer, no matter what you look like. I'm sure there is someone who looks at you in math class or something who is secretly thinking about you. It's almost scientifically provable. Trust me, it's true, i myself am a bit overweight, but i know that there are girls who like me.

why my name · Answer

Loose some weight. Lift some weights, run some miles. Being fat doesn't just affect the way you look, you need to get healthy.

bushnana · Answer

There are lots of guys that like big girls! Try to find one of them!!

Anonym · Answer

you are pretty and GORGEUS! all ur friends are so ugly next to uu! i mean it imm not joking! Lose around 40 pounds and all the guys will be DROOLING ;) maybe even 30 pounds!!!!!!!!!!!!! Cuz ur gorgeus wow!

Just Believe · Answer

You weigh MORE than that now? good luck getting a date. and no one knows where the hell south bend is

ehearts123 · Answer

find a fat guy

How does a girl like me get a date?! btw i live in south bend ;)?

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