Love or Life?

Well then you have to decide.

If you want children or not.

And if you want children more than that person

Then you need to leave.

If you want that person more than kids

you stay

KEEP IN MIND

if you want kids and STAY

You may regret your decision and take it out on that person.

That is not fair to them, IT WAS YOUR CHOICE TO STAY

they told you there feelings.

YOu have to decide for yourself, what is right in your world.

GOOD LUCK

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I made the choice not to have children since my husband did not have any interest in having children. I also gave up my interest in having kids because I believe that a child should have a mother and father who both want and love him completely and with 100% committment. I did grieve over the fact that I never had kids, but I do have a good life even with that void in my soil. I do make a difference in the lives of children because of my career. Deep down I still think, "What if......?" I do grieve that I made the wrong choice. Don't waste the best years of your life on a guy who is so selfish that he talks you out of having kids. He can have kids with a young woman when he's 50, but you only have a limited time of fertility. Think long and hard about this.

Perhaps your lives are taking different directions. If you really want children and your partner does not, that can pose a major problem. When children become involved in a relationship, they become a huge responsibility and priority. You are going to have too much stress caring for a child and an unwilling partner. Unfortunatley, you may have to go seperate ways on this one.

Good luck!

not everyone wants children but if you really love and care about each OTHER then have a long talk about children, find out some of the reasons behind his not wanting them and then discredit all of them with facts or emotional waver. Hang out at places that are family oriented and see if kids 'grows on him'. people change what they want in life at different times maybe he's just in a phase.

Sometimes people go through stages like this, young or old. But if you give him some breathing time, he will probably bounce back to his old ways. I would stay with him for a few more years before deciding to end the relationship, unless you are around forty and want kids. It would be best to find someone else in that situation.

I would try my hardest to talk him into considering children. I'm the type of person who wants children so badly I would do everything in my power to persuade him to see how wonderful children can be. If that didn't work, then I would leave, but if he really was the love of my life he WOULD want children.

I dont get how the question love or life has to do with the actual question... but if this happend to me in the future i would probably question getting married to them bc if someone does not have the same goals as you you shouldnt be with them. I think you should marry someone who has the same plans and goals as you do to ensure a great future for both of you that you both can agree on.

Tell him/her how you feel about the children. And if he respects that then he will stay with you thru it all. and if u truly love each other and r going to get married you need to agree on stuff like that

Well. You have to decide what would make you happier. Someone who you would die for...or a child of you own.

If I really wanted kids I would go for life. Because you could always find another love. And when you have kids with them you will have both love and life.

of course i would still stay with them, there are some people that can't even have children, if someone left me because I couldn't have children, then that just goes to show how much they actually DIDN'T care about our so-called "love"