Okay,He forgot our anniversary! What should I do?

awwww i'm so sorry!!! I would be really hurt if I was you i've been with my boyfriend for 8 years and we celerbrate our years all the time. but the month coming up I always go omg our anniversary is coming just so he dosnt forget b/c I would be very very angry and hurt. I would just talk to him and tell him it hurt your feelings and why did he forget. Honestly you cant really do to much but deff let him know it hurt your feelings. don't just be upset about accept it and tell him how it hurt you and dont ever forget again mark it on your calendar. Maybe he'll make it up to you!!!!!

Ignore csk comments those are very rude!!!! it was not your fault your not being a crybaby and you have every right to be upset! it's not our job to remind them of every single thing you have an anniversary is once a year it's not like you have one everyday. so please dont blame the women on her husbands lack of memory this is ridiculous!!!!! and keep your rude comments to your self it is her anniversary also I dont think it's rude of her to want her husband to remember give me a break!!!

and for the comment forget to give him any for a month??? oh wait you probally do what are you talking about???? her husband forgot an anniversary do you know how many couple have sex everyday and the man still forget the anniversary??? that is one of the funniest things i've heard because it makes no sense. It obvisous who runs the relationship in these womens lives! it seems a bunch of you think you have to tell the man what to do to function. I wouldnt want to have to remind my man of everything he needed to do for me. Because its like your forcing him to do things not that he wants to!!!!

What kind of relationship do you have overall? Is he pretty thoughtful and caring? Does he do things for you?

Does he have a lot on his plate right now and maybe he's stressed out and it really slipped his mind?

What kind of person are you in this relationship? Are you kind and loving? Would you want to come home to you at night?

Basically, it's either a one-time event or this is a pattern.

I don't think sulking is going to help either one. I think you need to look at the big picture, why it happened, and how you can help to keep it from happening again.

Good luck! Marriage is the hardest work in the world!

Wow, thats a bummer. Dont sulk or accept it. Talk to him calmly telling him of your dissapointment without getting crazy. If he does it again its obvious your feelings are not a priority to him. Perhaps next year youll get extra spoiling, hope so!

Did he forget because he has lots on his mind maybe? I think us woman need to remind them..there's no reason why we are always to just wait until they remember. I one time reminded my husband the night before I ask him what he wanted to do on our anniversary. I think woman are at fault on this we always expect that the man should remember. REMEMBER is not just your anniversary here it's also his! You would not be celebrating if it was not for him as well. Please stop being a cry baby about it. If he tells you he loves you each day who cares if he forgot does not mean he cares les about you.

Next time something important to him is coming up...let him think you forgot about it. Let him see how it feels.

Sulk as long as you want..

LOL Well I would buy him a present..an event book and have a calender in it WITH your anniversary already marked...make it out to be a joke YET let him know you forgot nobhead!

that's just wrong of him to forget the anniversary, hell no don't let him off the hook at all girl, otherwise you'll be paying that price for years to come.First and foremost how can he forget your 5th yr anniversary, that's just wrong, this year will be our 6th yr anniversary and my hubby never forgets that, infact we celebrate our anniversary every year with a bang, so for him to just say he forgot that is just heartless, and completely wrong, make him pay for that, don't let him off the hook easily at all.

Accept it if you love him. Maybe he genuinely forgot and probably feels like crap now.

Dont be to sad he probly was just real caught up with things and wasnt thinkin. I think every guy makes this mistake atleast once lol!

Bummer...I'd be pissed too. But again, how does that resolve anything?? Maybe encourage him to make it up to you by having a date night and doing what you want to do =)