Sometimes I could not make any decision, keeping in view of the other side of the picture, Is it wrong ?

It is very good thing to take per fact decision to adopt a right path.

No,

Well if you're talking your own personal view or the view of your own relatives compared to the view of your wife - you need to stop listening to your relatives and learn to listen to and care about your wife's view primarily. She needs to do the same thing - you need to make decisions together - not you doing whatever your relatives say is right and sometimes not even what you would have done if you were not married.

Well if you're talking your own personal view or the view of your own relatives compared to the view of your wife - you need to stop listening to your relatives and learn to listen to and care about your wife's view primarily. She needs to do the same thing - you need to make decisions together - not you doing whatever your relatives say is right and sometimes not even what you would have done if you were not married.

Hi Good morning,I know may at your place it's afternoon,Rana it's same thing like "a pision see a cat and close his eyes".When we have a problem we should solve it with priority of the problem,we must finish it and sleep with peace.I feel you are grown up girl and make your decision yourself,then why to delay,when you know you have to make one,so why not immediately and finish it,Do Mediation every day it will help you a lot.Good luck and have a nice day.

What?

You can't make a decision b/c you always see what would happen if you made the other choice?

What?

Yes I know how you feel cos thats the exact thing that is happening in my life right now.

so what your sayin is maybe he cheated on you.? please learn to forgive and forget, if you know deep down in your heart that its what you want, and your both willing to forget your past. - if your insecure think of ways for both of you to make a relationship spark again, im there right now!

Can you clarify your question a bit? I'm trying to understand it, but really can't make out what you mean. Thanks.

yes....if you know both side of picture... then...you should take decission.