Should I still go to prom with him?

Question

So this guy asked me to prom a while ago. We've been talking for a while, and almost two weeks ago we started dating. He broke up with me tonight, but he still wants to be friends and "go to prom and have a good time." Prom is less than two weeks away. I'd feel bad leaving him dateless, but at the same time, I don't know any of his friends we'd be going with, and I will feel like an idiot being there with an ex-boyfriend I'm not over. The other thing is, I'm only a sophomore, so if I don't go with him, I won't be going at all, and I don't want my mom to get mad at me for not using the dress she bought me. What should I do?

Anonym · Accepted Answer

I wouldn't go if i were you. That night probably wouldn't be any fun if you did. The whole aqward weird thing would happen and i'm sure he told all of his friends that you guys broke up. Just give him the cold shoulder for the couple weeks and maybe he will get it that your not going with him unless you are together. Tell your mom you guys broke up and she will get over the dress part. Plus you could always wear it next year at your junior prom. Good luck girl i hope things work out for you!!

Care · Answer

Tell your mom that he broke up with you and doesn't want to see you.  I'm sure she will understand and maybe ya'll can take the dress back.  I went to prom when I was a sophmore with someone I wanted to break up with the week of prom. (we had only been going out 2 weeks anyway and ended up dumping him that Monday after).  It was horrible.  We didn't do anything together.  I wouldn't go unless you know people who will be there. I didn't.
-C

Jennifer · Answer

dont go to prom with a guy you dont like.
i made that mistake last year. you're better off hanging out with girl friends. you will see your ex flirting with other girls, and it could potentially ruin the night. just tell him no, and make other plans. just make sure you're not alone on the night of the dance so you wont feel like a dork.
your ex seems to be over you, so dont feel bad about leaving him dateless. he's the one who broke up with you! dont feel bad that he screwed himself over.
you could return the dress or save it for next year. or resell it somewhere. dresses arent that hard to get rid of.

izzy · Answer

i think that u guys should still go to prom but anyways your mom probably worked really hard to buy u that prom dress and dont let it go to waste. i think u should go as friends and make it a good time and make him regret breaking up with u.


                 Izzy

Anonym · Answer

**** it just go you have the dress

Should I still go to prom with him?

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