Me and my bf are planning on spending time on Veterans Day 2getha , any ideas for 2 ppl who wnna b alone ?

ummm... too much fuss over your boyfriend coming over

he's not the queen of england

have you made any decisions yourself lately?

Goodness dear, this isn't text messaging. Spell your words correctly and fully...your post would be easier to read and taken more seriously (text-typing looks like little kid-speak and it's rather unsettling to see it coupled with references to adult behavior)

Now for your question:

1) Wat 2 wear ? ( lingerie , lil' skimpy outfits , etc. ) Attire depends on what you want to do. Lingerie or a skimpy outfit won't be appropriate for outdoor activities unless you are in the southern hemisphere as it's getting chilly here in the US.

2) Wat shud I cook ? Cook something you know he likes.

3) Wat movies cn we watch , wat music shud we listen 2 ( any baby makin' ideas for music ) You should know his tastes, and your own. We don't.

4) Wat all ideas do have dat u wud do if u were n my position ? Go back to school would be my first instinct. Education is more important than playing with a boyfriend.

5) Shud we go out or stay n ? That's up to you guys, and the weather.

6) Wat shud we tlk about ? Things that interest you.

7) I'm freakin' out , I'm gttin' mad butterflies jus thinkin' about it , I gt dem everytyme I'm alone w/ him , wat 2 do ? Relax...if you are so unsure about everything on this list, perhaps you aren't ready to be dating.

I would get a Hotel room don't tell anyone where you are going, this is how me and my bf get alone time.

1) Wat 2 wear ? ( lingerie , lil' skimpy outfits , etc. )

Bring both first do something romantic (Lingerie) then something fun skimpy outfits.

2) Wat shud I cook ?

Order in and bring favorit drink

3) Wat movies cn we watch , wat music shud we listen 2 ( any baby makin' ideas for music )

Romantic music for the lingerie, what ever kind of movies you guys like, and upbeat music for the skimpys.

4) Wat all ideas do have dat u wud do if u were n my position ?

Just make the best of your day.

5) Shud we go out or stay n ?

Stay in.

6) Wat shud we tlk about ?

Anything.

7) I'm freakin' out , I'm gttin' mad butterflies jus thinkin' about it , I gt dem everytyme I'm alone w/ him , wat 2 do ?

Relax, love him, relax.

i do no longer propose to be impolite, yet from what i replace into analyzing, you planned that night for your self, and not him. I kinda understand the place you're coming from, yet from a guy's viewpoint, he probably did no longer anticipate that. perspectives of marriage from adult males to ladies (u be attentive to i propose lady) are diverse. suprising a woman with a hoop is punctiliously diverse variety getting a guy to positioned on a hoop. He probably looking forward to in ordinary terms a birthday, and you caught him off shield. This kicks in that guy's defence mode and he will attempt something to evade it. Like I reported earlier, I have not any intentions of being impolite, in simple terms offering you with a guy's viewpoint. It would not propose he loves you any much less, yet in simple terms no longer the best 2nd. you may desire to talk with him approximately your thoughts at a separate time. enable him be attentive to which you quite elect something extra suitable than in simple terms being there for him. U made a assertion: "im solid enuf to bathe jocks & cook dinner & clean & sleep with, a 'spouse' in all techniques yet no longer solid enuf to be stated as one." it is in simple terms your egocentric suggestions speaking (no offense). If that's what you think of of being a marriage, then you are going the incorrect direction. It sounds extra like a maid than a spouse to be. a guy desires a helpmate, no longer a maid. some who can bring up his heart and soul. A maid isn't considered one of them. i wish you get the component by utilising now.

Grow up.

And for God's sake, learn proper spelling and grammar. Are you still in school? If so, stay there. If not, go back.

Forget about "baby makin". You are far too immature to even be thinking along those lines.

EMT