How do you feel when some other male sms/s to your wife?

there is nothing to suspect. suppose u had a friend who is a girl and she smses u and ur wife reads it. what will u do then.

maybe the same situation is with ur wife. u can talk about it with her asking about the guy.

maybe he is just a friend and nothing else. u r thinking too much. but the best is to enquire about it.

Any marriage will stand only a word called "CONFIDENCE". If you are confident that you are treating your wife well, then trust her. SMS is not just the end of story and a beginning of end of a relationship. Your attitude towards SMS can change both of your lives. Dont let it happen. As much you get thrilled when you receive a SMS from a girl, let the same satisfaction / thrill prevail over with her also. Any person sending an SMS is not so interested in breaking his / her own relationships and develop new relationships. Don't let this idea bug your mind. Feel Free!

SMS is only just 4 fun. Its not real. It is only for general pleasure like surfing on net etc., difference is only that it is from a mobile. Don't take it seriously to destory your and her life.

Reasonable thing to do : Address the issue at home and ask her who this man is and what he wants from her.

Drastic thing to do : Take possesion of the phone secretly, pretend to be your wife, organise a meeting or bait this man into discussing how close the "friendship" is going.

Sneaky thing to do : Get into an sms friendship with another woman and let your wife find out and make her jealous.

What I would do : Ask her who the hell this random guy is, why he's smsing her so much, let her know clearly I'm not liking it.

What YOU should NOT do : Ignore it or let it go without having made sure you aren't threatened in any way.

I wish you luck in your future.

no i will try to find out if there is any mal intententions behind it or not? and surely i will neither ignore it nor i will get angry till the truth comes out.As may be some one is black mailing her and she is not in a position to tell me so that i too not get tensed because of this.So there should be a clear understanding between the two and un necessarily we should not sespect each other,as i have seen girls /women are more sincere to their husband than a married man is towards his wife. to be very honest.its universal truth.

HI BOND WELL AS YOU KNOW THERE IS NO SMOKE WITHOUT ANY FIRE WHICH IS WHY YOUR WIFE GETS THESE SMS I GUESS YOU TRY AND CONFRONT HER AND IF SHE IS PROVEN INNOCENT KICK THE **** OF THE GUYS HEAD,BUT IF YOU ARE JUST ASSUMING THINGS THEN I SUGGEST TRY AND GET SOME PROOF FIRST,BUT TALKING IS MORE IMPORTANT THAN GUESSING SO GO AND START TALKING ABOUT YOUR FEELINGS!!!

if some girl sms to u what ur wife will feel,like that we feel

make another question for that...hehe! but ill give you the answer short messaging service(SMS).

back to the topic...well it depends on the message i guess...its best to talk to your wife nicely...it wont do you any good if youll be starting a fight...

this way she would know how serious you are to her...and you dont want her gone...

it all depends on the level of trust you have for your wife,that one is married doesnt mean that she should stop making friends but if you see any of those sms that you dont like, i suggest you tell her so and tackle the issue immediately rather than let it linger.

If they are work-related, its OK, If its something else, ask her.Ask her what is that she isn't satisfied with you that she need to be so friendly with the other guy. See what she would say. Maybe you can reply with her phone introducing yourself to the chap, saying you are the husband, telling him that she is busy right now, whether you can help him or not. If he is smart he will laid off.

Tell him to cut it out. Tell her to cut it out too. This is BS, it is secretive and dishonest. No good will come of it.

Any loon knows not to do this so it isn't great. You might ask her to sign a post nuptual (not kidding). That ought to fix things up quick.