If hubby is vry shy n introvert,non sharing & wife is extrovert n famous,so she is not happywith her husband,?

HEY U WRITE THAT UR FRIEND GETTING THIS PROBLEM THAT MEANS SHE IS ALSO THAT TYPE OF NATURE,

JUST TRY TO GET SOME FRIENDS(FAMILY FRIENDS) & SPEND UR WEEKEND WITH THEM(BOTH OF YOU)

IF IT'S NOT WORK U CAN MAIL ME FOR FURTHER ACTION

It is really a situation which will be giving your friend so much depression and she will be thinking her future to be in dark. This quite natural.

So I can say only one thing I request her to be calm adn follow few things which is saying my life from suffering in husband wife relationship.

1. Try to be of your own and don't interfare as who is calling you, what happened in the office what is happening in his family, in few days you will see a change he will be sharing I feel this will work.

2. Try to limit your self in open discussion and try to be listener don't discuss you office or what you did the whole day, let him feel jealous as he will be surprised that you previously discussed every little thing and now she is quite.

3. Never demand any thing like outings etc.. be at home , he will ask himselfs lets go out.

4. Never talk about your family with him and there problems and in return you also do the same not ask any question about his family.

5. He is not shy he is trying to be so as he want to be dominating you, men's don't mind but men are such.

Let's wait and watch I think this will work for you, I have tried these and know they will surely work for you.

Dear pass my message to your needful friend.

Being introvert or extrovert is just the nature of people. One cannot change this. However the degree can aggrevate with the surrounding one lives in. In the above case, the woman needs to partially curtail down on her being extrovert and try to give more space for her husband. Good luck !!!

Who told you??

I am married for last 23 years, somewhat happily, And my problem is just the reverse. My husband is a boyfaced 48, jovial, burning any gathering with laughter and is much sought after by his peers in social gatherings or outings. I, in contrast, is diametrically opposite, 50 but look like mother of my husband and is introvert. Still, we are managing fine.

Dau'ter, extremes meet, and opposites attract.

Do not get waylaid by gibberish theories. Marriages work in its own way.

Is the fact of your friend being more famous than her husband creating the problems? She must draw him as close to her as possible and confide in him as much as possible. That would help to bring him out of his shell. Normally some husbands begin to distance themselves from their wives when the wives become greater achievers. A husband's male ego takes a beating when they slide below their wives in fame or professionally. If talking to him doesn't work, she should take him to a counsellor.

This is where an out side person, of whom has an objective view, spends time with both (him and her) separately talking freely about the other. This Mediator, then would have to help them both find common ground. If there is nothing left between the couple then the marriage is DOOMED.

That can be a problem. Opposites such as these two, do not always attract. The best think I can think of, is for her to ask her husband questions and then just sit back and wait. He will answer, just not as rapidly as she would. Just ask her to 'talk" to him, not at him. He will begin to respond and in turn, feel more comfortable talking more.

The break up letter, God's email and definition of wife and mother were just too good. Tomorrow morning the first thing i would be doing ofcourse after brushing my teeth would be telling them to my friends! You deserve lots of stars! Ok my Character map isnt allowing me to copy stars, so please adjust with these hearts! ♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥..... LOL God knows how many thumbs down i'll get for this one! Anyway, Cheers! :) Rudra

if she is an extrovert then shes bound to know how to help her husband open up to her and share his feelings with her.give him some space and let him think for himself and understand they have to make their marriage work and not enter into divorce issues. give him space, he wiil make it.

WELL ITS A DISASTER!

THIS TYPE OF PEOPLE LIKE HUBBY DO NOT WANT TO SHARE ANYTHING WITH THE OUTSIDE WORLD!

TRUST ME IFIF UR FRND-HUBBY'S WIFE REALLY WANT TO DO SMTHING SHE SHOULD EITHER CONTINUE WITH HER SUCCESSFULL LIFE AND SHOULD NOT GIVE A DAMN BOUT HER HUSBAND OR APPLY FOR DIVORCE!